Pittsy's Place

Happy Love

2011-02-11T09:00:00.001-08:00

Happy Lover's Day. May you share your love with those close to you.

These images are from a light painting expedition with my brothers down at the beach. Great fun!

'Potters' Wheel, Part One

2011-01-20T08:50:00.000-08:00

This post was originally written in the fall but not posted. Since pottery was such great fun for us, I decided to turn our time into a few posts for ya'all. Here is Part One.

Have I shared with you how I temporarily lost my eldest to Harry Potter? Well, in a couple of short months he blew through the series and was completely hooked. He isn't a creepy warlock kid, he's just a boy who will stay up very late at night reading. He sneaks under the covers after 'lights out' with a flashlight to continue a chapter or more. His offenses could be much worse, I am aware.

That said, we had a potter's class in the fall and he was tickled as all get out about the "Potter's'" wheel connection. I am certain the sensation of throwing on a wheel would have appealed to him regardless of his HP preoccupation but it made for fun puns along the way.

And so, as I was saying, we've been working with pottery a bit. Our interest was heightened when we visited Portland and the kids spent two good days playing pottery in the backyard. Hours of hand forming, reminded us of how simple and rewarding clay, water and paint brush can be.

When we returned and settled into our school routine, the art for the semester was an easy pick. We had private lessons at a local ceramic studio. Throwing on the wheel and creating a bowl from a chunk of clay provided hands on learning at it's finest.

It was interesting how the task translated to each child a little differently and each bowl was perfectly unique as it came to it's desired form.

Next up: clay forming at home

Perpetual Calendar

2011-01-07T13:03:00.000-08:00

I love this perpetual calendar! What a great way to capture the main events of the day. I try to record a daily journal and track what was big for that day; something funny someone said, an amazing life changing epiphany, or just something notable. Truthfully I can't stick with it. This may just be the streamlined approach I need.

So creatively simple and what a great gift idea. You can use postcards. pictures or anything that might be special for your recipient. There are so many possibilities.

Images and more DIY details from Design Sponge.
Found via The Violet Hours.

A Book, A Movie and An Ah-Ha Moment

2011-01-03T13:13:00.000-08:00

The leading reason I selected our core curriculum is due to the superb literature woven into the program. I highly subscribe to the philosophy that we write what we read. And just like with any other influence in our lives, the better the literature, the better the lesson.

Transforming our reluctant reader
So, each of my charming students (both kids, that is) have readers that graduate with difficulty throughout the year. The story selections are phenomenal. Anna began the year as a reluctant reader. She would declare her disdain for the written word and protest at the suggestion of reading. While it had been her mantra for quite some time, she had a subtle change of heart as our school year settled in. Nothing was forced, it was simply offered. Her reading selections that were part of her curricula were interesting to her. She had been stuck reading books that bored her. The basic stories that were previously provided for her skill level were of no interest. There was not enough plot or any interesting description.

Finally she was given some great historical fiction that drew her right in at her level and she hasn't looked back. Not once have we had to debate about her readers. She happily picks them up and often reads ahead. And it's because of the depth of literature offered.

Reading together
In addition to the individual readers, our program has a history read aloud we do together in the evenings. David usually takes over with this and I often find all three snuggled together intently listening for the next page.

One recent read aloud was the missionary story of Gladys Aylward. She was a determined woman who passionately felt her calling was to serve in China. Her story is a moving testimony of the impact one person can have when their heart has a calling. I don't mind sharing that I caught my dear sweet, but very strong and manly husband crack his voice at the conclusion of the story. He was so moved by her perseverance in seemingly hopeless circumstances.

Can the movie possibly be as good as the book?
The Inn of Six Happinesses is a movie staring Ingrid Bergman that is loosely based on this story. Saturday night, we lit a fire and snuggled in to watch the flick. Too many times to count someone disappointingly declared "this did not happen" and wondered how there could be so many inconsistencies with the written story (starting with the title --"There are EIGHT happinesses!")?! As with most Hollywood depictions of great literature, the story was greatly modified and lost some things along the way.

The Ah-Ha Moment
It was certainly worth it to see our read aloud on the screen in spite of the departure from the original story. I was tickled as all get out that a lesson I have been sharing over and over was finally realized. Movies are never as good as the book. And they saw this first hand. It was beyond their reasoning that the movie didn't accurately depict Gladys's story as it left out so many of the details that truly exhibit her determination and passion.

I think it's safe to say movies - when inspired from a book - have been dethroned in our home. A good read is always better!

Bonus feature
P.S. Incidentally there was a quote from the movie that spoke to me as I was sitting with my fresh new notebook on New Year's Day, planning our 2011. Advice was given to Gladys that "A life that is planned is closed. It can be endured but not lived." I put down my pen and snuggled in a bit tighter. Hollywood or not, I like that.

Image and more about Gladys here.

Archiving Christmas [Photo] Cards

2010-12-30T13:41:00.000-08:00

There was a time, long ago, when I thought I wanted to be a scrapbooker. I'm crafty and I love all the supplies, but really I think it was more drawn to the archival aspect of the craft. My luke-warm commitment can most certainly be linked to my lack of patience for the detail that yields just one page. My visions far surpass my results. I peter out before I complete my grand plan. Not surprisingly, I have plenty of albums started but not too many completed.

My Christmas Album however, is a mark of pride. Not because the pages within it are awe inspiring but because it is filled with Christmas cards from our friends and family since the beginning of our marriage and theirs. Our 'peeps' shared the highlights of their lives and as we flip through the pages we go back to some of those forgotten moments.

Each year I start with our family photo card and letter and thoughtfully group together the photo cards we receive into a set of following pages.

It was a small enough project for me to accomplish in one sitting, and now, ten years later I truly appreciate the time I took to put those cards into the album. My style has changed significantly but that is part of the charm. Recording it, as it is 'now'.

When we are raising a family, building a career or just getting by, we don't often stop and cherish the moments. But over time, when we look back, we recall how much things have changed or how some of the most important things have remained the same. Pulling the album out each year and remembering the folks we have shared a season or more with helps make our micro world a little more macro.

As our family grew and the album reached it's capacity, so did my scrapbooking. Instead of adding a second volume to the collection, I now capture all our photos, hole punch them and add them to a ring--with our photo and letter leading the pack. It's the best I can do these days and while it may not have all the extra borders or stickers or labels, it is a doable means for me to still archive photos that we can bring out over the holidays and remember....

The simplicity and pureness of this level of archiving speaks to me and where I am now-a-days. I'm glad I did more when I had the time, but I'm just as happy with these too. The intent and results are the same. If you have made the effort to send us a photo card over the years, chances are good you are in our pages and we think of you each holiday.

Cheers and Happy New Year!

Best Ever Pumpkin Soup

2010-12-28T10:03:00.000-08:00

My sister-in-law brought the most delicious pumpkin soup for an appetizer at Thanksgiving. It's perfectly creamy and not too much pumpkin. The thyme and sherry are the little savory somethings that make you go hmmmmmm.

I have been serving it any chance I can muster since I got my hands on the recipe. It was fabulous in a warmer at our Cookie Exchange, and would be great at any New Year's Bash. I have had enough requests for the recipe so I must pass it on. I can assure you this will warm us throughout winter. Please enjoy.

Best Ever Pumpkin Soup
1 T butter
1 cup chopped onion
1 can (15 oz) 100% pure pumpkin
2 cups chicken broth
1 t each thyme and salt
2 small bay leaves
1 cup light cream
¼ cup dry sherry (optional)
Garnish: chopped chives

Melt the butter in a medium saucepan. Add onion and sauté over medium-high heat 5 minutes or until translucent. Stir in pumpkin, broth, thyme, salt and bay leaves. Bring to a boil, reduce heat to low and simmer 15 minutes to develop flavors. Remove from heat. Remove bay leaves. Cover and refrigerate.

To Serve: Bring to a simmer over medium-high heat. Add cream and sherry. Cook, stirring often, until hot. Ladle into small serving cups and garnish with chives.

Note: I double the recipe and use a combination of heavy cream (yep!) and rice drink (about 3 cups heavy cream and 1 cup rice drink). There is plenty of room to adapt this recipe to your desired consistency.

Light Touring

2010-12-19T12:15:00.000-08:00

Our score cards for our 'notable' houses on the traditional light tour. We are going with a five star rating system for the big kids and smiley faces for the little one. It will be interesting to compare notes over the years. Some of these folks really do it up right!

Cookie Exchange, Winter Solstice and Advent

2010-12-10T14:42:00.000-08:00

I hope you are all enjoying the festive season. We certainly are wrapped up (pun intended) in Advent. It's been great fun weaving in big seasonal activities with the simpler things we do to prepare for Christmas. I love keeping the kids on their toes and their interest peaked. They never know what the door will open for them each morning. Receiving treats is balanced with a whole lot of giving. Remembering the reason for the season and keeping it dear to us is so very special.

Party Invitations

We are hosting a cookie exchange for the kiddos and an Open House for the adults in celebration of Winter Solstice (did we get it all in with one party or what?). It's an intimate low key affair. No bake offs here. As an added bonus, preparing for the party has lended at least four advent activities (making the invitations, baking the cookies, decorating the cookies and the party itself).

If all goes well, we'll make it an annual tradition. You know how I love a good tradition!

DIY Travel Pillow Cases

2010-11-15T09:30:00.000-08:00

We hit the road in late September and had a fabulous time with a (new to us) pop up camper. I had surprises and treats revealed throughout our initiation trip. My most favorite? Our camper cases.

Nothing says 'home sweet home' (literally) like a set of family pillow cases.

P.S. You should know I can't draw worth beans. It's truly pathetic. These are traced, using a light box and a drawing Adrienne made for me to work from. I KNOW they are stick figures, but sketching is not my strong suite and I like her style. Besides, I made a new friend in the light box.

Grateful for...Reposts...

2010-11-03T20:20:00.000-07:00

I am so not in fall mode, and nowhere near readying myself for Thanksgiving. The heatwave blazing through So Cal may be to blame. Or the incessant illness that is slowly invading our home, one.at.a.time and allowing me to really hone my caretaker game. No matter the reason, I need to get with the season.

I took a look back at last year's "Grateful For..." posts and I think it is just the thing to prepare my heart and mind for this holiday season. I'm going to read them backwards this year to really stir things up (read: living on the edge).

You can see my month's worth of posts here.

Photo credit: Most photos are mine, but I borrowed a few from here, here, here, and here.

Changing Eduction Paradigms

2010-11-02T08:00:00.000-07:00

Making the rounds. An interesting view that may challenge conventional paradigms. What do you think?

Math: Wrap Ups

2010-10-18T21:05:00.000-07:00

We are always looking for ways to practice and develop our math facts. Card games are a big win since playing doesn't feel like drilling. Time in the car can be the most perfect opportunity to practice and challenge addition, subtraction, fractions and even beginning multiplication.

Enter, Basic Math Wrap Ups.

(Side bar: Before you read on and hit the panic button, let me share that this post almost didn't go up when I saw my boy's nails in these photos. Holy black claws, Batman! Who is his mother anyway?! You must know he doesn't live in a complete state of filth. We just returned from the kids' first session on a potter's wheel. Evidently, we brought a little clay home with us--and he is overdo for a nail trim. Another post, for another time. For now, stick with me and please focus on math, not the nails. Much obliged.)

As I was saying, the plastic keys function with a long string that you use to wrap up as you select the correct answer for the operation.

4 + 7 = 11

6 + 9 = 15

And so on

Once you have finished the key, turn it over. If your string path is correct you will will have properly matched the lines and not see anything.

If you have an incorrect answer, your string pattern will differ from the raised lines that are the answer key. (If this description doesn't wow you and you want to see an animated instruction video, click here.)

* For a kinesthetic learner, the hands on manipulation is great.

* For a competitive child, there are plenty of ways to increase the challenge and add a time to your drilling. Setting a goal of how many correct keys can be completed before picking up your brother, for instance, is a common practice in our car.

* For a reluctant mathematician, these are a good way to build confidence and skill.

Wrap ups are fantastically simple and portable and come in a variety of other subjects such as Spanish, vocabulary, and even music theory. These self paced tools are a pretty good fit for most any student.

You can purchase these handy keys from a variety of places, like Amazon,with several options (packs or individually sold, etc.). But to let you in on a little secret, I almost always prefer Rainbow Resources when they have what I'm looking for. The pricing is hard to beat!

And for the record, I (foolishly) don't have any contact with the companies of the products I mention or, dare I say, endorse. Perhaps I should review my options a little better since I am pretty selective about what I share with you all. But for now, it's just free marketing for them. (Read: I need a plan!)

This Week's Menu

2010-10-17T12:54:00.000-07:00

Tri Tip Kabobs
Corn saute
Herbed brown rice
Greens and mushrooms with lemon vinaigrette

Pasta alla Gianni (Pasta and cauliflower)
Prosciutto and melon

Chicken curry with potatoes and carrots
Green beans with lemon

Tuscan farro and bean soup (via Jora)
Crusty fresh bread

Taco salad

Homemade pizza night

Image via Hip Hostess

Serendipity

2010-10-13T08:13:00.000-07:00

Serendipity: an aptitude for making desirable discoveries by accident

And that's exactly how I would summarize our recent road trip adventure.

So many treasured serendipitous moments.

954 images
2,664 miles
11 days
5 amazingly bonded adventurers

This Week's Menu

2010-10-09T15:07:00.000-07:00

(photo by: Romulo Yanes)

Roasted chicken
Last hurrah summer panzanella (Smitten Kitchen and Ina Garten)
Roasted red potatoes

Baked cod with artichokes, tomatoes, capers and wine
Herbed brown rice
Spinach saute

Shrimp Fajitas (Next time I'll use chicken and try Steph's slow cooker recipe)
Spanish rice
Black beans and lime

Slow cooked beef stroganoff
Garofalo pasta
Brussel sprouts with lemon

Mini sliders
Sweet potato fries
Greens and Goddess

Tostada Thursday!

By the way, did you see these fun weekly menus from Ollibird?
(via My Favorite Things)

Re-Entry Weekend Noshing

2010-10-09T14:54:00.001-07:00

Slowly re-entering from a fantastic trip up the coast of California, five days in Portland, and back. We are nursing a sick little helper, unpacking and cleaning out. Projects galore.

In the midst of it, while trying to savior our serendipitous life on the road, you can find us noshing on a little bit of this and that.

These stuffed peppadrops are a perfect blend of sweet and salty:
* TJ's peri-peri peppadrops (pickled piquante peppers)
* Chevre with herbs

Simple, easy and a little delight.

Camping Encouragement From the Archives

2010-10-05T07:00:00.000-07:00

I came across an old post from summer I never shared with you lovelies. Since we have hit the road again in search of nature turning seasons on us, I find this post quite suitable.

We made it back from our week of tent camping and boating and what an adventure we had! A few basic notables for me:

Sleeping in a tent (on an air mattress, of course) is much nicer than I remember it to be. Even if you have 'weather' and it rains, being out in the fresh air and waking to chirping birds is a great way to start most any day. I love the connection to my most basic surroundings; the things I would certainly miss if I was typically huddled in a trailer, RV or cabin.

Cutting a deal with the husband upfront to be on breakfast detail and have coffee brewed and served was a very wise move on my part. He's a little hardier in the elements and doesn't mind getting going on the cups of joe, so who am I to stop him?

Planning your food out makes all the difference. I had all our meals planned, to the day. Grilled chicken, hobo meals, and even tacos are pretty easy camp food. Since we had to live out of a cooler, we had our freshest meals at the beginning and by the end of the trip succumbed to the crowd favorite (except me) of chili dogs. Marinating, even kabobing, and freezing ahead of time gave us a good variety of flavorful food.

We are booked for the same trip next year, but I will be in a camper. The experience was great and my kids loved it with no notice of the wind. Not one complaint from them. I, on the other hand, feel best if I can escape the elements a bit each day. I love boating and being out all day but I need to take a break from the sun, or wind or rain or whatever the weather serves up and reboot.

I'd like the record to show that I will always advocate a family trip of this nature (Pun intended!). It brings your tribe together and gives your kids a wonderful appreciation for what is simple and basic. If I can endure this with three kids, a throbbing sinus infection, too many snake sightings for me and unseasonable wind, then you can too!

Get out there!

Post script: I echo Marta's recent Q&A on camping here. Great tips!

Table in a Bag: A Family Staple

2010-09-30T07:00:00.001-07:00

It may be way too early to think about Christmas, but I have to share one of my favorite gifts to give. The wooden Table in a Bag is a must for every family. I can't think of anyone (unless they are hermits) who wouldn't love this table.

We use ours at the beach, concerts, camping, sporting events and even simple picnics. It's great for the obvious noshing but it also helps pass the time when we NEED a good cribbage or chess game.

Simply rolled up and tucked in a handy bag, this sweet little number can be slung over your shoulder as you saunter down for a lovely sunset at the beach with wine and cheese or ....

You can find one for yourself or your favorite person on your list here, here, here, or here.

Photo from Table In A Bag

Year of Plenty

2010-09-28T07:00:00.000-07:00

Want to get lost in a blog for awhile? Check out Year of Plenty. There are countless posts and links to pertinent discussions about our food, how it is produced, the effects of it, and the insatiable cycle of consumption.

Year of Plenty started as a chronicle of a Spokane family's journey to consume everything local, used, homegrown or homemade for one year. From that experience came a movement they are passionately sharing. Stay tuned for details on their book deal!

I love this beautiful description of their journey:

"We find ourselves in the midst of boundaries

between food and land, home and farm, faith and environment

and hopefully this blog offers some meaningful crossings

of those boundaries. "

We may be completely biased since these lovely folks are our extended family. But truly I am so refreshed by their perspective and resources. Wander over and see for yourself.

Photo from Year of Plenty

Birthday Travels

2010-09-23T15:17:00.000-07:00

This weekend is the husband's birthday. Last year I threw a surprise party AT OUR HOUSE. It was a success if you count that it truly was a surprise and he had no idea about the party. On the other hand, it just about killed me. I can't keep those kinds of secrets from D. Plus getting this place in order without him knowing why I had become so incredibly crazed was something I only want to experience once.

This year there will be far less fanfare, sort of.

We are hitting the road on his birthday for a two week adventure up the coast of California into Oregon -- because we can! (Plus one in the homeschool column.) I can't think of a better way to follow up a surprise birthday bash with all your favorite people than hopping in the car before sunrise with your wife, three kids and thirteen year old lab to drive and drive and drive some more. Can you?!

Last Christmas I picked up this great travel book from Anthropologie for my adventure man. I knew D would love to hit the road in a camper one day and I thought this book was charmingly inspiring for our sentiments. At the time we didn't have any plans to acquire such a treat. We just like traveling and I planned to use the book to chronicle our family trips.

Fast forward almost a year later and we have ourselves a sweet little pop up camper. It's a little brady bunch on the inside and we LOVE it. When searching for a super deal we had planned to redo some things and make a camper our sweet little home away from home. I anticipated sewing curtains and reupholstering, at a minimum. But we got lucky. The ole cliche "they just don't make them like they used to" is so true. Our little gem doesn't need a thing. It has been crafted well and meticulously maintained. A few dishes and throw blankets for cozy times and it's home for us.

And so the birthday boy gets a big treat this year. We are going big and serendipitously living on the road (we have a semi-loose plan of our travels to Portland and back). I have some posts lined up for you during my absence and may pop in here or there from the road (catch the pun?). Wish us happy travels and maybe even say a prayer for us that we stay safe and far away from poison oak and hungry bears.

This Week's Menu

2010-09-20T17:00:00.000-07:00

Bittman's Plum Chicken Salad
Baked Potato Bar

Turkey Taco Tuesday
Carrots

Chicken Verde Enchiladas
Corn Cakes
Salad with Pepitas and Cilantro Dressing

Broccoli and Mushroom Pesto Pasta
Fresh Loaf

Pizza Friday!

Photo via here

Will Spell For Food

2010-09-16T10:49:00.000-07:00

Sometimes we need a little kinesthetic spelling around these parts. The kids were dragging a bit one morning this week so we opted for a snack time spelling game. Wow, who knew spelling numbers and ordinals could be so much fun! (wink, wink)

Spelling the numbers 4, 40, 44, 14 or the ordinals 4th or 40th (and so on) can be tricky. When do we drop the 'y'? Why do some of the words have a 'u' and others don't? And then what about 'for' or 'fore'? When you are working for a peanut butter pretzels the stakes are high.

Putting our pencils down and using our Banagram letters (talk about multi purpose game pieces), my star students spell the word for the number I write on the white board.

A little side note: Competition in our house is discouraged. Our big kids are so close in age and have complimentary skill sets, that if allowed them to freely compete we might have smack downs on a regular basis. And then the little guy is such an underdog there is no hope of him ever really winning much of a match against his siblings. So, we don't compete with each other, we stretch ourselves and encourage each other. (And we practice that lesson daily.)

Our game is not a race. Everybody 'wins' and everybody gets fed when the word is spelled correctly. Extra credit is awarded to the player who can tell me which letter combinations make the specified sound.

The added challenge is that these aren't even our weekly spelling words. These are just words that sometimes creep in and give us pause. This is a fun portable game that can be used for so many different spelling options.

Pancetta and Chevre Stuffed Peppers

2010-09-15T14:04:00.000-07:00

We recently were in contention for the coveted trophy at the annual Badminton Party. Yes, that's right, badminton. Shuttlecocks soaring, D and I made it to the semifinals. I blame our loss on the transition from regular birdies to the lighted shuttlecocks. The velocity was completely different and we had no transitional preparation (although neither did the winning team, but who cares about them?!). Plus, the white lights surrounding the court provided great ambiance but horrible visibility. I am sure that birdie was aimed at me every serve in the final round. Clearly I was the weak link on our team.

Anyway, it was a very fun wrap up to our summer and we love this gathering with friends. I brought one of my favorite appetizers of this summer; pancetta and chevre stuffed peppers. Served cool or at room temperature, these sweet little nibbles hit the spot.

Here is the super simple recipe.

Pancetta and Chevre Stuffed Peppers
1 bag petite peppers (I get mine at Costco)
1 package diced pancetta (Trader Joes)
1 log chevre
10-20 leaves of basil
1 small to medium onion
EVOO

Remove pepper stems and clean. Toss with EVOO and bake at 375 degrees for 30-45 minutes. (This cooking time varies on how many peppers you are cooking and how soft you like them. I prefer a very slight crunch to mine. You decide how you favor yours.) Cool.

Dice onion and saute with EVOO until slightly translucent (about 3 minutes). Add diced pancetta and brown. Remove and cool.

In a bowl, mix goat cheese, chopped basil and cooled onions and pancetta. Add a pinch of salt and pepper and a splash of EVOO. This is a loose ratio. Add enough pancetta and onion with the basil to the chevre to give you a treat in every bite. Once mixture is combined to your liking, stuff the cooled peppers. Chill. Serve cool or at room temperature.

This Week's Menu

2010-09-12T11:17:00.001-07:00

Photo credit

Getting back into the swing of things, here's this week's menu. We have sports most nights when I would normally be putting dinner together. Our meals will need to be prepped before our practices or be working out their goodness in a slow cooker. This is the season of our lives, nothing glamorous but good hearty food.

Panko Crusted Chicken
Scalloped Potatoes
Corn
Green Salad

Chimichangas
Broccoli Slaw

Chicken Noodle Soup
Crescent Rolls

Spaghetti Carbonara with Peas

Chili, Chips and Cheese
Cornbread
Wedge Salad

The Strata of Our Schooling

2010-09-11T07:24:00.000-07:00

School is in session. So far, so good even though I know there will be difficult days. I am so thankful for the enthusiasm and eagerness that Christopher and Anna greet me with each morning. It's not a sure thing that what you want and pray for your kids can be met in practice. For now we are in sync and I am filled with gratitude.

Photo from a recent trek to one of our favorite local hiking trails.

The Foundational Layers
We are easing into our flow and slowly layering in new lessons. I like to call it the strata of our schooling. We start with the fundamentals; reading, writing and arithmetic. Introduce the subject, obtain a grasp of how it works each day and then let it settle. Our primary curriculum is Sonlight and Excel Math. The literature-based approach to learning history and science helps enhance our core reading and writing, even if we are studying supplemental topics. We are building our foundation.

Subsequent Layering
And so, we add in science and history, also through Sonlight, and let it settle.

Then we proceed adding a writing workshop, layering in Meet the Masters, and a periodic trip outside for the day with a program like Earthroots Field School. We have sports to add in and some really great field trips as well.

We have not had any problem filling our dance card. In fact, I echo what a seasoned homeschooling mom recently shared with me.

Homeschooling is not about choosing great things for your kids.
It's about choosing the things that are truly exceptional.

Programming and Socialization
There are so many options for fun, good programming. We don't even give the socialization piece any energy. It is not a problem at all (Heather wrote a great piece here.). Our challenge has been more a matter of determining what is outstanding among the many choices offered. Maintaining focus when there is a super cool program available is much more typical than not finding enough good options.

Plan and Scheduling
Part of what is keeping me grounded is the plan and schedule. Working the plan and chipping away at it. We look back and realize, wow, we covered a lot--even on just this first week. Building our program is a fine art in calendar management and planning in order to make it all work. But it's doable and sustainable, layer by layer.

Support
The other piece that is critical for me and my composition (read: incessant researcher) is a good support network. D is my #1 support. He partners in the teaching an itty bitty bit but more importantly for me, he has my back. He covers me with the kids and gives me room to find the best programs (for us).

I have also latched on to some wise homeschooling mamas who have been there and done that. They offer wisdom and comfort not found in a lesson plan or book.

I also seek like-minded folks who offer camaraderie and support on the philosophical level. We stepped out on this journey when no one close to us was homeschooling. It has been wonderful to meet and bond with great families. Their curricula may be different and their family intention may not be ours but the commitment is shared.

And then there is my posse. My girls keeping it real and giving me outlets that have absolutely nothing to do with schooling. My monthly dinners with Jora, my creative outlet (and so much more) in Michelle, and my regular grounding and belly laughing with Adrienne are just a few that keep me going.

The balance is key for me.

Post script: If you are familiar with our crew then you may be panicking with not a single mention of my little helper, Parker. He's here and he's a helper. He has preschool three mornings a week, which is great for him. He has a blast. And then he's home with us the other two days. He adds another layer for us and we work as a group to find our rhythm. He is watching and learning how to learn too.

Back to School [Feast]

2010-09-07T07:12:00.000-07:00

With great anticipation we officially start school today. We had a very soft start on Friday while our little boy enjoyed his first day of preschool. The big kids and I got acquainted with our math curriculum. But today is really the first day for us to homeschool - the way we want and with all the bells and whistles.

I have been strategizing and researching for months. Today is the day where we get tactical and the rubber meets the road. I am so excited for this journey, partially because the opportunity for us and partially because I have to be. If I don't have enthusiasm for learning, how will they?

So, we celebrated last night with a back to school feast. We just adopted this great tradition I first read about from Nie Nie. We had a lovely spread complete with presents and dessert. (And let me tell you, dessert around these parts is rare so the kids knew something big was brewing. Which, in my book, is exactly the way dessert should be used.) I love Nie's approach with a family theme for the year. Perhaps we'll graduate to that. For our initial feast we enjoyed a round robin sharing what we are most looking forward to this year.

New school supplies were wrapped and presented. There is something about the practical, and maybe even expected, wrapped up and labeled. It takes on a new level of 'doo dah', as D calls it.

So, we're off and learning great things! I plan to be a better blogger with periodic updates and a few new recipes to share. Hope all is well with you and your little learners.

Tailgating with Girlie Food

2010-08-29T10:00:00.000-07:00

My favorite fellow super fan, Michelle, and I hit John's summer tour again. Most notable about this summer's show was how he can pull off - yes, he pulls it off - shredding in preppy plaid pants and a v neck. I loves me some unpredictable preppy.

Since we left the hubs behind and brought another super fan friend we needed a girlie tailgate to properly prep for the show. I brought Giada's shrimp in endive boats (with parsley sauce) and some grapes. Big whoop.

Michelle, pampered us as we enjoyed THE BEST spread from Venisimo. My friends, this cheese shop has delectables I am still salivating over. (In fact, I am squeezing in a trek this week to said slice of heaven.) We enjoyed the best double cream brie, insane gouda, blue cheese (paired with honey and sugared walnuts, of course), creamy goat cheese (so soft and smooth) and peppers with chevre. And then there was the artichoke, salami and some amazing prosciutto salami hybrid with a fresh baguette. Nordies cafe provided our post show wrap up. More than I can take, people.

The vodka ice tea Michelle made is the most perfect drink for a hot summer day - or night. That lovely libation deserves a post of its own. Forthcoming...

I'm not exaggerating that we got lucky with the most perfect night for an outdoor summer concert. Warm and clear with the full moon rising over the amphitheater during the show. And the best tailgating ever. Thanks girlies!

Local Tourists

2010-08-21T21:30:00.000-07:00

August around these parts is chalked full of family guests. We literally have a solid rotation of visitors staying with us the entire month. Sharing good time with family who don't live nearby is so very important to us and we are lucky to have them. As an added benefit, we become local tourists.

Sometimes we go big and hit a tourist trap. But often the most memorable moments are found in simple pleasures, like a trip to a favorite taco shop.

D's dares never get old. He eats fire.

And this little guy wanted every last sip of his fountain drink.

Takin' it to the street.

Food and Friends

2010-08-15T08:01:00.000-07:00

For a good while I've been hankering for a dinner club. But the kids have been young and just getting out at all was a treat. Planning a regular meet up with friends seemed like a distant etheral dream that other people experienced, not us. Well, times they are a-changing and our dinner with friends has evolved into a regular (but not at all compulsory) event. (Cue the music!)

Good friends moved back into the area. Celebrating their cross country move home was the perfect kick off to our aptly dubbed Super Six Supper Club. I picked up this great dining diary from Anthro. Certainly any good tradition needs proper documentation.

And so it begins.

They Made It Through Ok

2010-08-09T21:32:00.000-07:00

Photo of Margaret Mead from here.

Did you catch Ree's list of famous homeschoolers? They 'succeeded' in spite of their parents' shortcomings in teaching them. (Did I really just write that? Pardon me, that's just beginning of the year jitters.)

Anyway, it's a fun little list to peruse.

Blogger Help

2010-08-02T08:21:00.000-07:00

I've gone and messed up my pretty (IMO) blog template and now I need some help. I've been hesitating to point it out in the hopes I'd hear back from Elli but no avail and I must reveal. I tried to change out my picture on the right corner of my header but ran into a snag. Now, my picture isn't sized right and my feeble, non techy fumbling around has left me high and dry.

I use Blogger. If you have wisdom on how to adjust said picture (replace and/or resize), please help.

Update: Thank you for the emails and offers to help. My sister got it fixed for me. I'm clearly not a techy.

The Love of Books: Unleashed

2010-07-19T08:54:00.000-07:00

Image via here.

It's official. I'm a book freak. For the first several years of our marriage and parenting I tried to deny my compulsion for books. I tried to 'move on ' from books read and ween myself from of the 'clutter'. But I came to to realize how much I love that my mother in law has entire walls devoted to her book collections. On more than one occasion, I have disappeared from a family gathering to wander her shelves and page through some of her classic treasures.

My aforementioned denial came about as I considered space. Our home has an open floor plan with few opportunities to clutter the walls with book shelves. In an effort to deny our roots, the husband and I desperately tried to purge ourselves of the things we don't NEED (We are both descendants of keepers--mothers who hold onto EVERYTHING). I went through my books and donated many and stored some of the others in the attic. A few maintained their spots of display but now as we are homeschooling and I am completely justified in building back up our library, especially my favorite classics and reference books. (Hallelujah! Cue the music.)

A room without books is like a body without a soul.
~Marcus Tullius Cicero

It's not by accident that I've been drawn to a literature based curriculum for our coming school year. I've done my research, poured through syllabuses and even considered making my own lesson plans. Ultimately we are going with a program that is a good fit for us in many ways. We can customize it in an a la carte fashion so we aren't bogged done with the things we aren't going to use or have taken a different approach with, but it's structured enough to not burn out Headmaster Extraordinaire. But the best part is that we are using CLASSICS. My heart skips a beat and I literally can not wait for the order to arrive.

I have a few resources to share if you too are interested in building a great library, whether for homeschooling or just hammocking:

Honey for a Child's Heart: This si a great book for value based, character building children's stories. A must for all families! I'm not a big fan of a lot of the children's literature that is produced these days. It's much like the trashy cartoons or 30 minute time wasters that can be found on the squawk box (You can sense my passion against the low-common-denominator pop culture media but know that it is coupled with an ongoing battle to temper one very proficient tv junkie under my watch. We're not a media-free house but I sometimes wish we were).

You write what you read.

Amazon: I can often be found trolling Amazon for some of my favorite classics. I've had good experiences with the used books for many of the books that are out of print. Reference books are great used since a lot of people don't actually use them. They can found in like new condition pretty readily. Usborne and DK books top my lists every time!

Local Library Used Book Store: I'm embarrassed to admit I didn't really know what a treasure trove the used book store can be at the local library--especially for hardcover classics. Many folks will donate absolute gems from their grandfather's collection or Aunt Betty's dusty shelves. Score for you!

If display is bogging you down, Seleta has a nice post on bookshelves here.

So, I am embracing my freakish book loving ways and am off to create the perfect spot to display our newest (and oldest) bound beauties.

Update: Design Sponge just posted some fantastic eye candy bookshelves. Check it out here.

Peace Be With You

2010-07-18T20:44:00.000-07:00

Just a typically peaceful moment in our day.
For real, I did not say a stinkin' word to these zen masters.

Casserole Cups

2010-07-12T15:53:00.001-07:00

Tuna noodle casserole is a old favorite in our house. I change it up a bit to add a little more pizazz but the tried and true casserole we all grew up on is still something all my kids will eat.

On a night like tonight, when we've been in camp most of the day, I'm looking for something easy, hearty and maybe a little fun too. So here's my latest spin on an old classic.

Tuna casserole cups and pear with chevre on greens

To make simply mix elbow macaroni (cooked al dente) with one can cream of mushroom soup, one can of albacore tuna (drained), lots of peas, salt and pepper. Spoon the creamy mixture into pasta shells (aka cups) and top (some) with cheese and even some crunchy triscuits or chips. Bake at 375 degrees for 30 minutes or until browned.

It's simple comfort food. Paired with a fresh and light salad and you're good to go.

Happy Fourth

2010-07-02T11:40:00.000-07:00

Literally passing the [pyro] torch...

I had a nice verbose post written for you all today but bagged it to simply say

Happy Fourth of July!

For previous posts related to one of our favorite holidays, check out

a quick and easy pennant banner
making the paper
croissants

P.S. If you are looking for a good read with the kids today, check out The 4th of July Story by Alice Dalgliesh. She writes wonderful historical literature for children.

Playing Up [& Some Blog Love]

2010-07-01T12:57:00.000-07:00

I naturally gravitate to creative doers. People who walk their talk and have dimension. I'm not much for being the big fish in a safe little pond--but rather love the inspiration and evolution that comes from trying something new; playing up.

I sometimes try to convince myself that this child-rearing season of my life appears to leave little room for that. But, that is so not the case. And that's reason number 2,539 that I love bloggers. My small, littel world is widened. My view expanded and my game is better for it. Unless they are shamelessly promoting something, bloggers are givers and teachers (or at least tutors). They know a good thing and want to share it.

I have a Google Reader filled with inspirational bloggers that meet different needs. Some offer great recipes, some are crafty, some I just enjoy their writing style, some are good homeschooling resources, and some are great designers. But my reader can fill up quite quickly if I don't tend to it regularly. And when I am as busy as this past month has had me, I don't get to every post. Honestly, I'm just not in the mood for that.

That said, there is a short list of well-known bloggers (I doubt these are new to you) that I quickly scan my Reader for a new post from. Tried and true, these gals break the moody reader mold for me. They are women who are mothers of 3+ (putting my little brood of 3 on easy street)--real life mommies who aren't posers. They post when they can and they almost always offer a useful tip. My favorites file is filled with posts saved from these ladies.

My short list of ladies who help my game:

Seleta

This mother of four offers great tips for fashion, decor and design. It's the simple and elegant details that make such a difference. She shares real life, doable, ways to make every day a little better (and she's budget sensitive=bonus!). I love how she can talk about great design and then share a DIY hallway makeover or some fun rainy day cupcakes. Maybe it's just where I am these days but I find her organization posts especially helpful. (Can you tell I'm gutting the closets and redoing the file cabinets and bookshelves?)

Darby

I love Darby's photography of her everyday with her kids as well as her documenting her home renovations. She's an inspirational mother and a not-too-shabby seamstress. I am waiting for her post on her girls' dresses (hint, hint). I am bound and determined to make Anna one this summer. Until then, I have no excuse for not whipping out one of these or this cozy number. She shares great recipes, these and these are also moving their way up my list. [In the bonus round: Darby's sister, Erika, has a great blog as well. She's a new mother and designer with great inspiration.]

Stephanie

In addition to her lovely french influences, I look forward to Stephanie's culinary posts and her simple how-to tips. Her site is complete eye candy and her recipes are flavorful and doable on a weeknight. She has a great modern sense of style that is so refreshing. I can spend some serious time scanning her archives.

Ree [& Heather]

This is an obvious pick for millions of people, literally. But I turn to Ree and her contributing writer, Heather, for my homeschooling motivation. I have lots of sites that provide very detailed lapbooks, or curriculum sharing posts, and they are quite helpful when I am working on those things. But it's easy to find homeschooling mamas that go over the top and I am cautious of burn out.

Ree and Heather compile resources that are just what I am looking for, like this post. These gals are seasoned and seemingly laid back with the right focus (in my book). I watch these homeschooling posts closely and often take a page out of their playbook.

Gabby

Oh Dear Gabby. We all know and love our favorite Design Mom. In truth I scan through most of the product promotions and go straight to the tips. She is so widely read and shares so much of her readers' tips that she has been a good resource for me finding new blogs to love and follow. Her innovation with Kirtsy and her progressive nature keep me checking back for what's next. My bookmarked posts from Gabby, though, are her projects with her kids. This mother of six celebrates her children's individuality and has some creative kiddos in the bunch. She provides a great launching pad for many fun projects.

I NEED inspiration as much as I need water. Whether I'm hankering for a new recipe or trying to develop my sewing or refinishing a table and chairs for the first time. Whatever 'it' is, I am continually inspired by these women who do it, with kids.

1. It's hard work being a mom.
2. The rut and trenches can suck you in if you let them.
3. Making something can be hard when you are some times just trying to get through the day.
4. Considering blogworthy is a level on top of that.
5. Finding the time to document the project and complete a post is the cherry on top.

My hat is off to these women who regularly inspire me and I appreciate that they take the time to share with us. If they can do it the same number of kids (or more) as me, then what in the hay hoo is stopping me?! I'm off to paint a table and chairs. Wish me luck!

Be Back Soon

2010-06-28T09:32:00.001-07:00

more suitcases, originally uploaded by flint knits.

We are back from our camping adventure with lots to share. But first I must continue to unpack and find my way out of the mounds of laundry a family of five can produce after a week in nature...

Be back soon, my friends.

DIY Father's Day Card

2010-06-16T08:40:00.000-07:00

Perhaps it's the season of my life that prevents me from even imagining leisurely browsing a Paper Source rack or combing Etsy for the perfect greeting card. I don't mean a lovely set of letterpressed cards that I can tailor for multiple purposes, but rather that hunt for the perfect Father's Day card, or Mother's Day card, etc.

This stage of my life doesn't allow for such luxuries (cue the violins). I find it difficult and pressure-filled to browse for someone else to capture my sentiments to THAT person. It's probably a patience thing.

So, I end up making a lot of cards. Ironically, I often relay a very simple message that I probably could have easily found on a pre-made card. Oh, the complexities...

Anyway, for Valentine's Day I made this very simple card for my husband. If I hadn't used it then, I could certainly use it for Father's Day, hence my reason for sharing with you now...In the 11th hour of Dad's Day prep...

I simply found a map of the world and reduced it to the size of my heart punch. Affixed it to a lined backing and hand wrote my message (but you could easily print this in your favorite font if the charm of handwriting doesn't appeal to you).

You mean the world to me/us.

I must add, I have a dear friend, Adrienne, who designs greeting cards for fun (how great is that?!). I love her humor and have a few favorites of her 'pre-made' cards I keep on hand and give as often as possible (probably duplicating my recipients many times over). She has a Father's Day card out that will FOREVER be my favorite. More on that after the big Dad's Day reveal....

P.S. Apologies for the poor iPhone photo. Prepping for my big excursion in nature leaves me little time to play with exposures and settings. At least you get the idea...

Mom, I'm Bored Jar

2010-06-14T08:09:00.000-07:00

I love Steph from Somewhat Simple's variation of an activity jar. You've probably seen or heard or even devised such a thing with your rugrats. You know for the nails on a chalkboard "Mom, I'm bored..." (Translation: "Entertain me now!") moments.

via Skip to My Lou

Well, this jar is filled with lots of fun things to do, BUT it also includes some chores or tasks that aren't as fun. So, it becomes a real test of desperation as to whether or not your sweet little dear wants to go there. They may pull the fro yo ticket or get to be the boss for a day card, but they might also get a chance to clean your base boards or wipe down all the doorknobs.

Making my own version now!

P.S. You may also like Steph's new blog Crazy Domestic.

Card Sharks [and Stealth Math Practice]

2010-06-11T08:17:00.000-07:00

We are deep into cementing our basic math facts around here. Anna is wrapping up first grade and heading into multiple step addition and subtraction and Christopher is completing that, heading into multiplication. Without a solid grasp of math facts these tasks are no fun.

So, we do a little bit of obvious practice with fact family games and a touch of flash card drilling (but frankly we all tire of that). The kids have timed drills with Mad Dog Math which started in school. They are enthusiastic about being in the 1 minute (or 30 second) club. But again, knowing the basic math facts quickly is essential to moving through the stickers and getting to the next level.

I have taken to card games to drill, rather than flash cards (yawn). Our favorite game at the moment is WAR. It's simple and fast which is how the drills really play out. The kids don't realize they are drilling, they just want to beat mama!

So, it goes something like this.

Cards are divided evenly among players until they are gone. (We usually play one on one but some times add a third player.) Each player takes a card from the stack (without looking) and places the card down. The person with the highest card wins the trick. BUT, that person has to state the sum (or difference) of the values.

11 + 8 = 19 or 11 - 8 = 3
(This could also be translated to multiplication)

As the plot thickens and the tension builds, there is occasionally a match. That means there is a battle (If playing with Anna, we break out in song...."Battlefield, battlefield.....Better go and get your armor...." ala Jordin Sparks.). Three more cards are placed, face down. The fourth card is flipped and the high card takes the pot--AFTER announcing the sum or difference.

I have been known to flub a value or two, testing my opponent. If they catch me, they win my cards. All of which is on the down low. They just build confidence and wit in trying to beat out mama.

Cribbage and Black Jack are also fun stealth math games. I am sure we will hit those hard during our upcoming camping adventure.

Last Child in the Woods

2010-06-08T10:36:00.000-07:00

What started out as a reading list for homeschooling has evolved into a great read for most any parent, homeschooling or not. Our most recent discovery is Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children From Nature-Deficit Disorder.

Even without the endorsement of Scientific American, countless reviewers, and seasoned child develop experts Richard Louv's national bestseller and 2008 Audubon Medal winner is a must read for all parents, truly.

In our tenure as parent we've innately relied on 'getting outside' as our get out of jail card when everything unravels. Temperament changes and the the kids return to baseline. Wandering or hiking and not being corralled is something we require when choosing vacations or even just family activities.

Frankly it's selfish parenting. We want to do what is easy and what flows the most with our family. Now, as the kids get older we have been so thankful for this practice. For our children love and appreciate nature and feel a deep connection, even if we don't live in a forest. It's become part of who they are.

And as it turns out, studies (cited and reviewed in Louv's book) show that connecting with nature, frequently and intentionally, is essential for healthy physical and emotional development. Louv ponders the links of a not-so-coincidental rise in obesity, attention disorders and depression with a lack of nature in these same kids' lives. He opens his book with:

There was a child went forth every day,
And the first object he look'd upon, that object he became,
And that object became part of him for the day or a certain part of the day,
Or for many years or stretching cycles of years.

The early lilacs became part of this child,

And grass and white and red morning glories, and white and red clover,
and the song of the phoebe-bird,
And the Third-month lambs and the sow's pink-faint litter,
and the mare's foal and the cow's calf....
~ Walt Whitman

I like to play indoors better 'cause that's where all the electrical outlets are.
~ A fourth grader in San Diego

Last Child in the Woods is an excellent summer read and should be on your shelf of return-to resources. It's another reminder of how some of the most simple and fundamental elements can be the most neglected in the name of alleged progress.

Juice Box Boat [Races]

2010-06-04T07:00:00.000-07:00

Summer is almost here and so is our camping trip. I've got some water babes in my crew so boating, boarding and tubing will occupy most of our time. But for the idle moments around camp or at the shore of the lake I'm thinking these juice box boats from Inchmark would be a fun craft.

I see boat races in our future....

Image via Inchmark.

The Allowance Responsibility

2010-06-02T11:00:00.000-07:00

We're like a lot of parents out there. We start an allowance/chore program and then fizzle out. We've been more disciplined about the chores ("this is your responsibility as part of the family...blah blah blah") then we have about actually paying out allowance. I admit it. We haven't always had the exact amount owed and before I know it, I've forgotten. Plus what do little people need money for anyway?

Our 'piggie banks' are stackable containers from The Container Store.

Well, Cousin Lauren visited for a good while last summer. She is the exact type of young lady you want your kids to be around for a good while. She's bright, responsible, considerate, and conscientious with a great personality.

I am no fool. I took advantage of the gift before me and interviewed her as often as I thought of something. Exactly what did her parents do in this situation, or that situation? Not everything can be directly translated. Family dynamics are different and having three kids in the house is different than two but the underlying principles and the fundamentals for what you want for your kids doesn't differ between 1 kid or 25.

This brings me back to the allowance/chore discussion. Cousin Lauren is quite financially responsible for a young lady her age (14). She is keenly aware of saving and giving. She is a good shopper and appreciates value but at a good price (sweet music to my ears). So, how did this happen in a world with so many kids having no real value of money, a lousy work ethic and a raging sense of entitlement? Parenting, of course, and a good financial education from the beginning.

It had me realizing I had been going about it all wrong. I had been expecting that our kids would have some sort of internal motivation for money and that would be incentive enough. I thought linking their duties at home to pay would be like a job and give them a good work ethic and fiscal responsibility. But it's not. Kids don't care about money, really. They aren't in the workforce with a mortgage and mouths to feed. They just sometimes want stuff.

I realized if I wanted to teach them how to be responsible with money then we need to give it to them. Not optionally when they earned it but every week. They have to do their chores and they have to take my money! Neither is negotiable. (I do have a negotiable component to our program but it is behavior based. More on that another time.)

So, let's get into it. Here's Lauren's allowance plan:

She receives $1 per week for her age. She is $14, so she gets $14. The money is divided into four categories: save, gift, charity and short-term savings (spend).

: Save: $5 is put in college savings.

: Gift: A portion is for gifts. Parents match. So, if they want to gift a school friend a something that costs $20, they pay $10 and parents pay $10. The real beauty of this, as I see it, is that they are able to consider thoughtful gifts for each other and their parents with a budget. There is something very powerful in giving. (My love language may be gifts so I realize I may be giving this unnecessary attention but the thoughtfulness that comes from this delights me to no end.)

: Charity: $2 is saved each week. At the end of the year Lauren selects the charity she is interested in donating to. Her parents match her contribution. Need I say more on this message?!

: Short-term Savings: That leave a weekly amount of $5 for saving for that something she's had her eye on. From the perspective of a 14 year old who likes to shop, this is plenty of money. She doesn't need more. She saves and spends on stuff she wants.

{Additionally, she is given a clothing budget for school clothes. This didn't start until she was in middle school. She makes different choices than her sister, for example. She would like to spend a little more a very good pair of jeans and a few t shirts. Her sister could care less about the jeans but would rather have more hoodies. You get the drift; freedom to choose wisely and for what suits them.}

Well, naturally I wanted to adapt this program RIGHT AWAY.

Our kiddos don't quite grasp the value of money. They are still young and life is simple (may we savor in that for a moment?!) They see several dollar bills in their stash and think they're rich. I have caught one child paying the other $5 just to make her bed. (I think we know who made out better on that deal.)

With the earning approach it suggests that the chores are optional. If you don't want to do the chore then you don't get the money. Well, guess what? They're rich, remember? They don't NEED the money. They pretty much quit--and that's not what we want to set them up for in life.

Each set is personalized and stacks in their desks.
Periodically we take a deposit to the bank.

So, with a few adaptations, here's our version (tailored to a 7 and 8 year old):

: $1 per week per age

: The money is divided into three categories: give, save, spend (we will add the gifting category when they are 10)
: Save: $3 is put in college savings
: Give: $1 is for offering each week. They can give it at church or save for a specific charity. They determine what they want their gift to go towards.
: Short-term savings: That leaves a weekly amount of $3 (Anna) and $4 (Christopher) for spending on something they have been wanting. Plenty of moola for their needs.

As far as the chores go. Those aren't optional. It's part of being a member of the family. You don't get a choice to opt out because you don't feel like it. And you know what, surprisingly, I haven't had any resistance on this point. I think it's because their chores are so minimal it's not as if they live on a farm and have to really work. (My strategy is to give them tasks that are expected that they mostly can handle but may be needing reminders, and then add one more at a time that equals real work.)

The next time we chat on this topic I'll share my behavior incentives and rewards. Not surprisingly and much to my delight, that is a bigger motivator than money.

Three Scoop Taco Salad

2010-05-25T07:00:00.000-07:00

Tacos make a regular appearance at our table. Shredded chicken tacos, fish tacos, soft tacos, crispy tacos, and even tostadas and shrimp fajitas fall into our our taco nights. This week's variety was Three Scoop Taco Salad.

Can you tell which is ours and which is theirs?

This is a good meal for entertaining with kids. Simply set up a bar, just like with tacos or tostadas, and finicky eaters can delight in adding...nothing...Folks who like a little more flavor can layer those on as desired. All will walk away satisfied.

My very loose recipe follows. With a bar-style meal, there are lots of variations along the way. This is what we had on our last taco night. Next time it will probably look differently, since that's how we roll.

Three Scoop Taco Salad
1 bag scoop or tortilla corn chips
1 lb ground turkey or beef
1 cup salsa*
14 oz refried beans (black beans would be great as well)
Spanish rice with corn**
Cheese
Lettuce
Pico de gallo (tomatoes, cilantro, white onion, squeeze or two of lime)
Black olives
Avocado
Salsa verde
Fresh lime
1 can V8***
Cumin
Chili powder

* We always have a supply of homemade salsa or Costco's organic salsa on hand. It's fantastic with eggs, impromptu burritos, baked potatoes, etc...

** Spanish rice can be as simple as combining brown rice, onion, salsa, corn, chili powder, cumin and salt. Or just pick some up from your favorite taco shop. Or use a boxed mix. Whatever you have time for.

*** I add V8 to anything I can get away with, especially when the kids put on their finicky hats. A few extra 'veggies' isn't a bad thing. And when every other ingredient is whole and from scratch, I count the V8 as the salt.

Brown turkey. Add cumin and chili powder and V8. Simmer until juice is reduced as desired.
Heat beans. Cook or heat rice. Combine chopped onion, cilantro, and tomatoes and squeeze with a lime and add a pinch of salt. Chop lettuce and slice avocados and olives.

To assemble line bowl with chips and layer with a bed of lettuce. Add one scoop of beans, rice and ground turkey (hence the three scoop namesake). Top with cheese. Continue with your toppings as you desire (avocado, pico de gallo, salsa verde, lime, etc).

Salud!

Ladybugs and Gardens: A Good Day

2010-05-19T13:28:00.000-07:00

We are working on a plant unit for science. We have fresh lettuce, herbs and whatever other veggies we can produce in our very small backyard. So the kids are familiar with gardening and a plant's life cycle. That said, going to a real farm, with real space, makes for a fun (schoolish) field trip to enhance our lesson. If I have initial advice for homeschoolers it would certainly include field trips, lots of field trips.

And so, based on a high review from Kristianne, we hit a local little gem of a garden. It's run by folks with a passion for good, organic food, not high production farming. We happened to show up on volunteer Wednesday so there were a few wise gardeners there to answer our myriad of inquisitions.

Oh the delight to find artichokes (clearly one of Anna's favs) and rhubarb!

As with any good garden we encountered some ladybugs. Naturally, more questions...How can you tell if a ladybug is a boy or girl? (Answer: It can be difficult, but size is an indicator) And so on...

Eventually, the breeze and sunshine beckoned us to the pergola for some sketching and snacking.

Much observation and consideration went into adding our new ladybug friends, Louis and Loretta, to the sketchbook.

As with any good dining al fresco, the ambiance of the garden included a bocce ball set. Parker took a great liking to the idea of it and even felt inclined to change things up a bit. You know, to help his game.

We will certainly be heading back to take a class--from seed to plate--and will frequent the market on Saturdays.

Louis and Loretta didn't make it home with us. So we took a pittstop at the local nursery for our own supply of aphid eaters. Did you know that if you put your container of ladybugs in the refrigerator the little speckled ones fall asleep? And since it's best to release them at night a little bit at a time, the sleepiness factor works in your favor. Just take them out of the fridge and put a group on your intended host and repeat for a few nights in a row. Your chances of the ladybugs making your garden their home are better, so THEY say.

We'll be the judge of that with our first release this evening.

The Sound of Writing

2010-05-18T09:00:00.000-07:00

We've been having great fun around here with our new-to-us typewriter. I don't know what it is about a classic hunt and peck return carriage of a Smith Corona, circa 1950s, that I find so charming. Perhaps it's the sound of writing that I love so much.

While we regularly use Spelling City for practicing our weekly words, our portable typing machine has added new charm (and keyboard recognition) to our exercises. It also works well for shopping lists and just about anything else we can muster. Spelling today, stories tomorrow...

Simple pleasures, my friends.

Dash and Bella

2010-05-17T08:31:00.001-07:00

Have you discovered Dash and Bella yet? It's a lovely blog with truly interesting recipes. Mom Phyllis makes real food with her kids and documents along the way. Her recipes are inspiring and fun and I love her cooking philosophy with kids. Check out an interview with her here.

I admit I'm not very familiar with persimmons. My Nana used to love to give them to me but I never knew what to do with them. Now I do and I am quite intrigued with this combination.

And then there is the cremini mushroom salad with asparagus, aged gouda, and lemon vinaigrette. I'm a sucker for all of the above. I have a fun mushroom salad with lemon vinaigrette in my regular rotation but I'm inspired by the asparagus and gouda additions.

Both images via Dash and Bella.

Glamping With Kids?

2010-05-13T09:34:00.001-07:00

{Image via Frolic}

Since this appears to be the year to stretch and reshape me, why not just go big and add on tent camping...with the kids.

I used to camp, in college and even in the early years with D. It was fun and even a bit romantic. There weren't children to tend to. I wasn't haunted by dirty feet in the tent or hauling off to a bathroom in the middle of the night with a wee one. It involved good noshing, great books and endless games of cribbage and backgammon. Oh yes, and naps any time.

{Image via Frolic}

D could have a legitimate case against me with a bait and switch. Since I had children, I declared that I had graduated from tenting it. My life involves a lot serving and tending to others. Why in the hay hoo would I to want make things any harder by doing it all in the elements?! I've gone soft.

An RV or a trailer suits me just fine. I can enjoy our outdoor adventures (the more pristine, the better) and then retreat to a warm cozy bed. All nice and tidy. I can escape the wind or dirt or cold/heat and engage in said games. Primarily I can cook good food easily. And so, we have a lovely trailer lined up for our Memorial Day getaway.

But now another trip has landed in our laps. The timing lines up perfectly. A site which normally books a year in advance became available. It was as if it was booked for us. Good friends are veterans of the trip and have a fantastic crew going , with lots of playmates for us. And best of all, we'd be boating for a week on a wide open lake.

Husband and the kids really want to go. I seem to be the hold out, which is a violation of my core self. We are doers and like to try new things and yet I may be the reason we don't do this. To load the deck even more in their favor, (read: me against them) the trip falls on Father's Day. Ugh!

How can I say no to a family who wants to explore and be together...plus a week of boating?! The answer: Because it involves roughing it--TENT CAMPING!

{Image from glamping experts at El Capitan Canyon. Via Cookie Mag RIP}

So, I conceded and I am vowing to have fun. I love a good boating trip. I'm embracing the challenge and not going to be soft. I am pulling out all my archived copies of Sunset (and justifying why I have saved them to begin with) . Pouring through the pages for inspiration and looking for fantastic, but easy, recipes. I do not plan to skimp on flavor, my friends.

I don't know if our adventure will classify as glamping but for now, that's my inspiration. If you, dear lurkers, have any tips or eye candy to inspire me, please share.

For starters, I'm taking a few tips from this article. (via Glamping Girl)

Crayola Doesn't Make A Color For Your Eyes

2010-05-12T07:00:00.000-07:00

First spotted at The Winding Road, we also fell in l-o-v-e with Kristin Andreassen's Crayola Doesn't Make A Color For Your Eyes. Mr. (PJ) DJ is looping it over and over and over...

But that's ok. It's too cheery not to like. Does it make you happy too?

Eight is Great

2010-05-09T19:52:00.000-07:00

Happy Birthday to our biggest boy.

Christopher turns eight today and we are so, so grateful for him.

Magnet Mamas: Here's To You

2010-05-09T11:00:00.000-07:00

These three adventurers pull on my heart so strong. I am so blessed for that daily tug.

We just returned from a great sermon on this Mother's Day and I am compelled to share my encouragement with fellow Mamas. Today's message began with what I thought was a sweet tender story of the power of a mother's love. It goes something like this:

A second grade teacher embarked on a lesson about magnets and their power to draw items close. [I so clearly saw where this was going...It was an analogy of a mother's love and drawing her children near and all those things that aren't important have no power, incomparable to a mother's love.]

The teacher wrapped up the magnet unit with a quiz..."I am a six letter word that picks up things."

Instead of the class recalling their week's lesson and providing the correct answer of M-A-G-N-E-T, the majority of the class answered M-O-T-H-E-R! How often have you said that in your home? "Why I am the only one who picks up around here?!" Can I get an amen?!

Here I was prepared for a lovely story about a mother's love and how her prayer and intention with her children is powerful beyond measure. And that came later but the opening story (and my drawn analogy) sticks with me.

So Magnet Mamas, cheers to you today. We try so hard to be and do so much for our family day in and day out. We try to make all the 'right' choices and to raise our kids up right. Sometimes, the most simple things are the most powerful. Say a prayer for your children today. Draw them near to you and that which you believe. Nothing is stronger than a mother's prayer, not even a magnet.

Homeschooling for Excellence

2010-05-07T13:47:00.001-07:00

We started homeschooling Anna this February as a bridge with no idea how our family would 'fit' with this crazy wacky ride. And it has evolved into a full fledged joy.

We brought Anna home because she was not loving learning the way she always had. She was only six and too young, in our book, to have the joy of discovery squashed out of her. So, we planned on a little detox time and simply wanted to slowly reconnect with her enthusiasm for learning.

What we didn't plan for is her very swift shift back to our inquisitive little girl. At the first of the year, she tried hard to convince us that she wasn't a good reader and that it was "stupid". Now she is quite fluent and is on the cusp of not wanting to put the book down (a day I wasn't sure we would see with her--not everyone loves reading, or so I thought).

I am more surprised than anyone that what began as an effort to help our daughter has shifted our entire paradigm of education. We have a new perspective that is very simply focused on each child, each year, and nurturing their love of learning. We are able to be intentional about encouraging our children to be the best they can be.

Homeschooling is not for everyone, but I think it might be for us. At least for another year. Next year we are planning to homeschool Anna AND Christopher. Parker will stay the course and attend our beloved preschool. I am excited for our journey!

I joke that I'm in a masters program (or at least an intense certification program) because I am so deep in research on child development, education, learning styles, curriculum, case studies, etc. Please know this is not normal or required in any way for a typical homeschooler. I am just odd. I like to research things thoroughly and to really roll up my sleeves and dig in. It's my happy place.

One of my favorite recent reads is Homeschooling for Excellence. Authors David and Micki Colfax received unsolicited press during the 80's when there four boys, all homeschooled, attended Harvard. Defacto pioneers in a quiet, seemingly obscure practice of schooling their boys at home, they show how they did it. They didn't set out to change the world or preach their philosophy, they kept it simple and helped nurture that which was within.

I loved this book. It's a good read, even if you aren't a homeschooling family. It provides a great review of the history of public education in our country and a frank discussion of the housekeeping of public (and dare I equate, some private) education. If you are on the fence about homeschooling, this may force your hand. It is encouraging. Whether my kids go to Harvard or not is hardly the point.

It's A Wrap!

2010-04-30T09:28:00.000-07:00

Good friend and now fellow blogger, Beth, has just posted the best tutorial for a reusable sandwich wrap. I saw these in person and begged her to teach a newbie seamstress like myself how-to. Her fantastic step-by-step instructions have me encouraged (Only 7 steps and $5!). I plan to whip a few of these out this weekend.

Pop on over to her blog, To Be Charmed, and check out some of her other great posts. You'll be adding her to your bookmarks, I am sure.

Gap Clothes, Prada Accessories

2010-04-28T20:30:00.001-07:00

Gap clothes, Prada accessories. Exactly!

A girl after my own heart, Jenny hits some of the topics I'm most passionate about on her blog, Dinner A Love Story. Truly, how great is the notion of not having an outfit, or a meal, or your interior so THAT. But rather, to pair something rich and maybe even extravagant with a real sneaker of a find or a classic staple?! It's a lovely combination of challenge and indulgence. So up my alley.

And add to that her passion about the quality of what we are eating and the value of doing it together. Is it weird to want to be besties with her?

Oh, and she's got a book coming out soon too. Honestly, what the heck do I do with my days?!

Photo from here.

Meet Crosby [And I Am Not A Cat Person]

2010-04-21T21:18:00.000-07:00

So following my to-do list confessional I see it only completely and perfectly juxtaposed to introduce......

Crosby, the kitten
(I think we have complete consensus on the name but Presley is a close second.)

Compared to my thorough review of homeschooling curriculum (I swear I feel like I'm in a graduate program) this feels so impulsive. But really, anything that involves pulling a trigger at this point would feel impulsive.

We have a cat, Maggie Mae, and our dear sweet Labrador, Liz, both in the twilight of their lives. We've considered another pup but I can't manage that right now (I still have a pup--his name is Parker!). So we ended up rescuing this sweet little guy this afternoon.

The story is simple. He stole my heart. We were heading out to do some field research (I'm not kidding). I thought this adoption thing might be a good activity for Dad while he's wrangling the kiddos this weekend (Mom is getting out of dodge!). I wanted to get some info under our belts, review it with the husband and then get set up before bringing him/her home. You know, a methodical, intentional plan.

But some plans are made to be broken. He pranced over to me, in a rather regal fashion (albeit juvenile) and snuggled in to greet me. You must know I am a dog person. I don't prefer cats. But he's so purrrrre and affectionate....

The thing about cats is you don't really know what their temperament will be. I sense a loving cuddler and the foster care giver assured me he is a masterful snuggler (preferring the armpit or neck cranny). Personally, I think that's what cats should be. Otherwise, why are we cohabitating?!

Anyway, we'll see how he progresses. Hopefully since he's a wee one, just turning eight weeks this Saturday, we can love him into staying a cuddler. If nothing else, he'll be loved, as evidenced by this sweet initation into our family.

Truth be told, the husband is more of a feline lover than I. He tipped the balance in favor of a cat. (I just want the record to reflect that for some reason.)

Christopher has already made fast friends with our little buddle of fur. He made the most perfectly cozy bed for him. Snug as a bug in a rug.

Anna is a nervous mother hen who can't get enough. Crosby (Or Presley) much preferred sleeping in her pit than a harsh cardboard travel box. He had her at hello.

Oh sweet little P. He is quite intrigued by the kitten as well but can barely get a moment with him due to the aforementioned monitoring of his sister. I will say, there has been some obvious coaching that comes with a three year old learning the fragility of a kitten, but he was the first to get a good purrrrrr of out him (at least to my knowledge). He has a tender touch and this might be just the thing to really let that shine (Yes, I dare to dream!).

Balancing the To-Do List

2010-04-19T10:12:00.000-07:00

We discovered this creation on our Sunday hike at the beach. Perfect, no?!

It's a Monday....Back in the saddle time. I turned the TV off. Anna and Pj are happily creating and discussing dot art (after our morning session of schoolin'). Now I have a peaceful moment to tackle some things and I'm spinning. Where do I start? I am balancing a lot of tasks right now, which feels good. But I also am creating a monstrosity of a to-do list.

Here are a few items I need to prioritize and tackle:

: Tend to my neglected blog. I am behind in posting and want to share so much with my lurkers (who never comment!) but in all honesty lack motivation to post when there is little dialogue. Are you reading? Do you care? I love this blog and love to share things that might be useful or fun or whatever. I would love it more if you commented and shared with me as well. I know you're out there, don't be shy.

: Redoing the kids' closets. I need to finish what I've started (Story of my life.)

: Basic household clean up. This is truly never ending but Mondays are my 'take back the house days'. I am just bored with groundhog day activities like cleaning. They need to be done and always take away the frantic feeling a messy house has but the monotony of cleaning....

: Review seminar notes from this weekend. My homeschooling journey has evolved from an intended placebo break for Anna to a heartfelt ambition for my family. I'm completely enraptured by the possibilities for my kids and am deep in research. I am reviewing, critiquing and hoping to one day select curriculum for next year. This weekend I attended a seminar by Carole Joy Seid. Wow, it's a radically different approach than traditional education. She is much like Charlotte Mason's method of teaching with Great Works--a literature based teaching. There are certain aspects of the classical approach I really like and I am considering how to incorporate it in our own hybrid curriculum. (P.S. She's anti traditional curriculum, so I'm clearly deviating from the plan right out of the gates.)

: Continue my research interviews regarding next year's homeschooling plans. This is deep and wide and big. If you know me at all you know I am a thorough researcher and need a lot of information to choose a path.

: Get cracking on my reading list. I will share my gems of reads as they earn their distinction. But, first I need to read 'em.

: Summer plans. We need to nail down some summer plans. Trips, visitors and activities.

: Pictures, pictures, pictures. I have a lots of pictures to processing and print. My role as family historian needs some attention. Plus it's fun!

: Correspondence. I am fortunate to have such wonderful friends and family who are thoughtful and giving. I owe several thank you notes and basic connection. Bad me!

: Nurture my creativity. This is a never-ending desire that is rarely satisfied with me. Knitting is taking a backseat to sewing. More on that later.

I have a lot of reorganizing I am entrenched in (physically around the house and structurally with our books, schooling and business of our lives). One step at a time and being a list master will calm the crazy. Best of all, I have a spa getaway for the weekend. A break is in sight!

What's on your heart today?

A Soundtrack To Our Lives

2010-04-13T10:51:00.000-07:00

We are big music lovers but my little helper has upped the ante. When he was a babe and had some troubles we provided some music therapy for him. He goes to sleep every night listening to the Beatles (instrumental only). So, I guess I shouldn't be so surprised at how interested (and may I say, specific) he is with music.

But I am.

He sits for the longest time on record playing music or manning the iPod station. He is incredibly opinionated about what he likes and may play it SEVERAL times in a row ("Mama, I need rock and roll!"). He has an interest and intensity with music that I haven't seen with anything else with him. And I can't wait to see how it develops.

In the meantime, he's doing a wonderful job providing a soundtrack to our lives. Rock on!

A Boy and His Grandpa

2010-04-08T07:48:00.000-07:00

My Dad has been visiting us. He lives in the midwest and we live out west. Our visits are not frequent enough for my liking but we cherish the time we do have together. Now he is retired and considering a move closer. (Yay!)

My youngest, who shares a middle name with my Dad, has had his mommy time threatened and isn't exactly thrilled with it. I catch him glancing at Grandpa side ways with a bit of skepticism coupled with intrigue. Deep down he knows Grandpa is his kind of people and they could have a lot of fun together.

But, for me, having the lessons of my Dad's life passed down to my kids is completely invaluable. This I know.

The Birthday List

2010-04-03T21:01:00.000-07:00

Today is my birthday. In keeping with tradition, I reviewed last year's list of birthday goals. I hit a few really well, but overall I was a shameful disappointment.

I try to explain away my lackluster performance at attacking these goals with excuses like...
: I have taken on homeschooling one of my three for the second half of the year, when I hadn't planned. (But all good!)
: My little helper is really no help at all. In fact, he's a full time job on it's own. Considering much beyond his safety is a joke.
: Life has been full--so so full.

You get the picture. But the bottom line is they are still great goals and I think I need more time and focus to get to them all. So, I will dial back the berating and proceed working through the list.

One more year, means one more goal though. So in this next year I plan to attack 1-37 and add:

38. To lift my hands off the wheel more and enjoy the ride.

Planting Our Seeds

2010-04-03T20:54:00.000-07:00

And watching them grow.

Happy Spring to you.

Butterfly Lapbook

2010-03-23T07:40:00.000-07:00

Anna and I are having a good time at home learning and growing in confidence--both of us. One of the greatest advantages, in my eyes, to homeschooling is the opportunity for enrichment. We can take an interest or area of study and go deeper with it. Last week we wrapped up a unit on butterflies.

We conducted our own butterfly release (from caterpillar to chrysalis to butterfly). And we also put together our first lapbook. These are great ways, whether you are homeschooling or just looking for something to enhance your child's interests, or could even be pulled off for a rainy day(s) activity. There tons and tons of resources available. The homeschooling community I have found online is a generous group of (mostly) gals who share. You can consider most any topic and someone has likely developed a lapbook template (often free) for it. You can tailor for your student or even use it as inspiration and create something else more appropriate.

Our first lapbook should have included photos and documentation of our butterflies and their release but we skipped that. We followed components of this template pretty closely.

Anna loved the hands on artsy crafty synthesis of her learning. It was fun for her to share it over and over with anyone who would listen.

This week we are wrapping up a simple resurrection lapbook. Next up up is our study of Native Americans through the Courage of Sarah Noble. This will be a more involved study that we are both looking forward to.

Welcoming Spring With A Little Mother Pucker

2010-03-21T21:47:00.000-07:00

My SIL gifted us some of her fantastic homemade limoncello for Christmas. Mother Pucker. Enough said.

Welcoming spring this weekend prompted us to enjoy her libations over ice. Between her liqueur and husband's brewing you'd think we were a bunch of lushes...I prefer to take the angle that I have married into a creative and thirsty family. That is all.

Super Sleuth [Nancy Drew] Bags

2010-03-18T21:13:00.000-07:00

The party prep continues. Since we will be solving a very important mystery, it's only fitting that each sleuth should have a customized trinket bag with their essential MacGyver-ish items.

I was inspired by these trinket bags [tutorial available] and think I may make them for any and everything possible. The fact that my kids love to collect things further spurs on my frenzy...An iPod bag, a bakugan bag, a rock bag, and adventure bag, a here's-all-the-little-things-that-have-gone-missing-bag...You see where this could really help out?

Anna carefully and very thoughtfully chose the fabric for each of her party guests' bags and personalized letters. I have to say, she expanded my thinking a bit. I hadn't considered some of the pairings she came up with.

Each bag includes basic sleuthing essentials:
: magnifying glass
: gum
: string
: pen/pencil
: paper clip
: notepad
: wooly willy suspect sketch
: flashlight

Naturally, we'll watch the Nancy Drew movie with Emma Roberts as a crash course on how to be a good detective.

Still more to come...

Past posts: Party invites here.

Write [or Tell] Me A Story Cards

2010-03-16T07:00:00.000-07:00

We've been having lots of fun with our writing. Some days we consider this date in history and use that as a writing prompt (only if it's interesting, of course). Other days we work on a theme we're learning or a character trait. And still other days we whip out our Story Cards. I L-O-V-E these cards.

Today's assignment was to choose five cards and make up a story. Before writing the story we use our story builder (or comprehension) tool. It's where Anna maps out the story in terms of characters, setting, main idea and title. If we are reviewing a story or using this tool for a book report we add a tab for whether or not she likes the story; why or why not?

These beautifully illustrated cards provide endless stories options:
: use as writing prompts
: have fun with round robin story telling
: tell your child a story

There are several different themes available. Woodland forest friends are a big hit with our crew but so are robots. These may end up in a certain little helper's Easter basket...

Evernote

2010-03-14T19:36:00.000-07:00

Heard of it yet? You must check Evernote out.

Finally, one stop for my plentiful lists of ideas. (There's an iPhone app too.)

This Week's Menu

2010-03-14T18:35:00.001-07:00

Teriyaki Salmon Sliders with Pineapple
Island Macaroni Salad

Italian Chicken Salad With Farfalle Cups
Tomato Bisque

Chimichangas
Cabbage Salad
Spicy Carrots

Focaccia Pizza Bar

Grandma's Gouloush
Wedge Salad

Super Sleuth [Nancy Drew] Party Invitations

2010-03-11T13:55:00.000-08:00

We are deep in projects and preparations for Anna's 7th birthday. This year we will be celebrating on vacation with family friends (Remember how crazy we are?!). Since we've been intrigued by a good mystery and feel we have some super sleuths among us, the Mystery at Mammoth Mansion appears to be developing into quite a 'who done it?' situation.

Invites set the stage for a serious mystery that needs to be solved. Each guest has been given a password (pocket necklace). Nancy Drew is the inspiration for the 12 girls and Sherlock will guide the 3 (only three, two of which are mine) boys. The individual passwords, written in invisible ink, will be checked at the door to confirm they are, in fact, on the guest list. We can't allow for imposters!

More to come....

Sick Day [or Not] Soup

2010-02-28T22:05:00.000-08:00

Mama doesn't get sick days, unless it happens to fall on Saturday. And lucky for me, husband is very comfortable in the kitchen. On a much needed restful day for me, he served Giada's Chicken, Artichoke and Cannellini Bean Spezzatino and Bruschetta with Fontina and Greens in bed.

Sick or not, this soup is a new favorite of ours. Enjoy.

Chicken, Artichoke and Cannellini Bean Spezzatino
Ingredients
2 tablespoons olive oil
1 (4-ounce) piece pancetta, diced into 1/4-inch pieces (we had proscutto and used that; d-lish!)
2 medium carrots, peeled and cut into 1/2-inch pieces
2 celery stalks, thinly sliced
1 onion, diced
3 cloves garlic, halved
1 teaspoon kosher salt, plus more for seasoning
1 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper, plus more for seasoning
2 (14-ounce) cans low-sodium chicken stock
1/2 packed cup fresh basil leaves, chopped
2 tablespoons tomato paste
2 teaspoons dried thyme
1 bay leaf
2 skinless chicken breasts with rib meat (about 1 1/2 to 2 pounds total)
12 ounces frozen artichoke hearts, thawed and chopped into 1-inch pieces
1 (15-ounce) can cannellini beans, rinsed and drained

Directions
In a heavy 5 or 6 quart saucepan, heat the oil over medium-high heat. Add the pancetta and cook, stirring frequently, until brown and crispy, about 6 to 8 minutes. Using a slotted spoon, remove the pancetta and drain on paper towels. Set aside. Add the carrots, celery, onion, garlic, 1 teaspoon salt and 1 teaspoon pepper and cook until the onion is translucent, about 5 minutes. Stir in the chicken stock, basil, tomato paste, thyme, and bay leaf. Add the chicken and press down to submerge. Bring the liquid to a simmer. Reduce the heat to medium-low and simmer, uncovered, turning the chicken over and stirring occasionally, for 20 minutes. Add the artichokes and the cannellini beans and simmer until the chicken is cooked through and the liquid has reduced slightly, about 10 to 15 minutes.

Remove the chicken and let cool for 5 minutes. Discard the bones and cut the meat into bite-size pieces. Return the meat to the saucepan and simmer for 5 minutes until warmed through. Remove the bay leaf and discard. Season the spezzatino with salt and pepper, to taste.
Ladle the spezzatino into bowls and garnish with the cooked pancetta.

This Week's Menu & Debbie Downer

2010-02-23T21:26:00.000-08:00

Beans. Rice. Ramen.

No seriously, we are eating more than these basic thrifty staples. (Goddess dressing is in there.) I have been a bad blogger and not posted our meals the past couple of weeks. Shame on me.

Since our transmission decided to die on us at a not-so-good time (when is it a good time?!), I am feeling extra frugal. I'll be back to posting meals (boring and budget friendly included) on Monday.

All this budget, transmission failure, bad blogging has me really sounding like.....you know....Debbie Downer. Whenever D and I really need a good laugh we bust a gut to some old Debbie Downer skits. If you can make it past the damn commercial (sorry), prepare yourself for 4:09. We wipe tears away every time.

Move Over Ranch, The Goddess Is In The House

2010-02-23T14:11:00.000-08:00

There was a time when I could get my kids to eat most anything if they had some ranch to dip it into. Well, ranch has been replaced by Trader Joe's Goddess Dressing. Seriously, we are easily moving through one of these bottles a week.

All my kids love it. Even Mr. I-Don't-Eat-Green-Vegetables can't resist the goddess. Oh, and for my sister's birthday (the one who is some times vegan) she's getting showered in goddess goodness. It's the simple pleasures, folks.

P.S. If you don't have a Trader Joe's near you but can get your hands on Annie's, it's the same thing (but Annie's costs more). Read about it here.

Harboring

2010-02-17T21:36:00.000-08:00

Hitting the harbor for a morning walk/cruise is a favorite for our crew. We wind our way around the docks to the bagel shop and back, checking out the boats along the way. We love to compare witty monikers and to see which boat is farthest from home. Last weekend, Sugar Lips from Chicago made us giggle for quite a while.

But most of all we just like to be together. We're dorks like that.

Waiting for bagels and playin'.

P.S. I made Anna's skirt as a gift for Valentine's Day. It's not bad for my first try to wing it without a pattern. I have some thoughts on some improvements for spring, and some dresses for summer. I may even dare to try a pattern.

Horse Mapping

2010-02-15T16:25:00.000-08:00

Much like potty training and mapping out every loo in your route, which is 99% behind us, we have been horse mapping. With Anna homeschooling and her two brothers in two other schools, we have a bit of time running around and occasionally some waiting. But lucky for us we have found some good stables along the way. And nothing elates Anna more than horses.

This could easily pass as a typical day for us (it happened to be last Thursday, but could also be tomorrow):

: Bro to school
: Home for a super great lesson with Mom
: Out to an appointment (Ok, this part probably isn't as typical)
: More stimulating learning (in the field)
: Car picnic at the stables (How's that for a good recess?!)
: Pick up lil bro
: Library
: Back home for some thought provoking lessons
: Early departure to pick up big bro - attempt at snooze cruise for lil bro - resulting in serenading new horse pals (And realizing both bros have stables near their schools. How truly convenient.).
: Swim practice for Anna, catch with mom for the boys
: Family time and dinner
: Reading and reflection

A good day with new friends.

Olympic [Onion] Rings

2010-02-12T07:56:00.001-08:00

In honor of the Olympics and the opening ceremonies, we will be enjoying some yummy onion rings for lunch. [And rolling our own sushi for dinner. You know, ring food.] What do you do to get into the spirit?

Which has me wondering, why is there such subdued hype for these games? Are you watching the opening ceremonies tonight?

Image from here.

Our Valentines

2010-02-09T08:00:00.000-08:00

We are almost finished with our Valentines. We like to exchange with our classmates as well as our neighborhood family. So, for Christopher and Parker, that means a lot of Valentines. Since Anna is only exchanging with the neighborhood, she opted to get a little more crafty.

Christopher is deep into Mad Libs right now (And don't think for a moment I'm not relishing in the chance to practice adjectives, adverbs, prepositions, pronouns....). So, it's only fitting that he would stuff some silly stories with pixie stix (Can't you see the rush now? Oh the sugar-induced giggles we are gifting.). Thanks to Gabby these are a synch to make (Tag printable here.)

Parker's very simple tags are affixed to a bag of sweet-tart conversation hearts. He likes a low profile but joneses hardcore for the sugar. We find this quite suitable for the 37 Valentines he is distributing.

Anna's gifting stems from some of her favorite things...Writing, crafting and good conversation. She stitched 'I love...' booklets together and stamped a Happy Valentines Day message on the inside. Our inspiration for the heartfelt hearts comes from the Purl Bee and these. I love that she considered each recipient as we made our color selections (not all hearts have to be red). Our packaging is finished off with some lovebird pencils and, of course, some conversation hearts.

I have a couple of crafty projects up my sleeves for my dear Valentine, but since he occasionally reads this here blog, I'll have to share those next week. Don't want to ruin the fun.

A little behind postscript 'making of' moment I have to share:

Anna was so excited to be able to stitch her own love booklets with the machine. She carefully considered her project and opted for a zig zag stitch--thought it gave her look a little more pizzaz. She was an attentive student through her orientation to sewing (Which is very funny coming from me--I barely know how to make a thing!). She did a fabulous job staying in control and completed all her books on her own.

Christopher noticed some good times underway and casually popped in to assess the situation. In spite of his reservations, curiosity won out and he wanted to give the ole sewing machine a whirl.

And so, my student became the teacher. Anna patiently explained the importance of control and speed and how the needle must be down....And Christopher happily stitched himself a bookmark.

Amazing how empowering a sewing machine can be on a Saturday night. [Having an Oh, how my life has changed moment.]

This Week's Menu

2010-02-08T08:00:00.000-08:00

Chicken Scallopini with Saffron Cream Sauce
PW Crash Hot Potatoes
Roasted Asparagus with Balsamic

Buffalo Chicken Sandwiches
Wedge Salad

Veggie Tacos with Spinach, Corn, and Goat Cheese (Current Real Simple Issue)
Spanish Rice
Spicy Carrots

Grilled Shrimp with Herbed Basmati Rice
Chopped Mediterranean Salad

Croque-Monsieur
Greens with Mushrooms and Lemon Vinaigrette

Image from Real Simple.

I'm the Captain?!

2010-02-06T10:01:00.001-08:00

We made it through our first week of homeschooling Anna. We are starting slow and layering our projects and enrichment activities as we gain our footing. Working out placement for Parker and defining our schedule was our biggest challenge. The best analogy I have is that to flying a plane.

You see I feel like I just flipped the switch from being on cruise control auto pilot to manually maneuvering the turbulence. As involved as I thought I was before, I played a very supportive role (not a bad role at all, I might add) relative to their learning. I flew coach and happily went wherever the captain (teacher) piloted the plane. If there wasn't enough noshing or snacks served up (as their never is, right?!) I brought some supplemental sustenance along to get us through so we'd land happy travelers. I was present but able to float through it all with a little extra here and there.

Now, I am in charge. It's a gnarly flight plan. This is not a surprise and I am doing my best to rise to the challenge. I have taken safety precautions and have a teacher who we are working with. She is my parachute and will save us from crashing and burning. We have structure and curriculum and a whole lot of resources (my goodness homeschooling is taking off!).

My daughter, however, has totally stepped up. She is flying first class. That girl wants only the best. This first week has revealed that she is completely self motivated. I knew she had great drive but it had subsized a bit. I am surprised at how well she is approaching everything. She definitely likes structure so we are doing our best to keep library day on Thursdays and the yellow folder is for Math, and so on. Within that, she's a perfect passenger.

I realize this is only week one. But are happy to be where we are. And I think all my passengers are going to have a better trip because I turned off auto pilot.

Image from here. Take a listen to this one man indie pop gig also from San Diego. Sending messages.

25 Hugs A Day?!

2010-02-03T07:00:00.000-08:00

A friend just told me about some recent research that claims you need 25 hugs a day to be emotionally healthy. If this is accurate, I have to tell you I am seriously cutting some people short around here. I'm not putting it 25 hugs for anyone, let alone multiplying that times the four other people in this wacky family.

But, one of us just might be getting her fill....

Day one and two and ... of homeschooling concludes when we head back to school to get brother. Anna bolts to her [old] classroom and doles out hugs to anyone and everyone. Doing the math, she covers her 25 between the car and the classroom. The rest of the hugging is just bonus.

Certainly she's got to be emotionally ecstatic!

P.S. Is this common practice? How many hugs are you getting/giving a day?!

Homeschooling: Day One

2010-02-01T13:19:00.000-08:00

Anna teaching me about Frida Kahlo, Meet the Masters-style.

::Warning: This is a lengthy, very open post. And please know, I am fragile.::

A Little Background
We've been deep in consideration of all things educational around here. I haven't blogged about it since it's a private issue and can sometimes be controversial. I was all set to continue down that path until I realized this journey is too good to keep to myself.

First off, too many people in our lives know about this crazy mid-year maneuver and are wondering how it's going. I was never one who had a lot of 'me time'--it's just not that season of my life. But, now especially, I simply do not have time to update my dear friends as I would like. Enter, my sweet blog. (Foreshadowing)

I am so blessed with my friendships and times like this make me so aware of that. Some friends are certain I am crazy (they might be right) to even consider homeschooling. Admittedly I was one of them last year. ("Are you enrolling again next year?" "Well, actually I'm considering homeschooling." "What? You're insane. Why in the world would you do that?!")

Some friends are watching closely and think I may be paving the way for them in the future. (We'll see about that.) And some friends are just very good friends and support me, even if I am crazy or our decision isn't something they would do. I am grateful for all the colors of my friendship rainbow.

The story goes, I have three kids in three 'schools'. My older two kids had been in a reputable private school and one remains there. He's happy and it is a very good fit for his learning style and personality. The other sweet dear has just embarked on a homeschooling journey with me for the remainder of this year. And, lastly, my little helper is in preschool.

Our reasons are many and completely full of shades of grey. We have always been committed to evaluating our kids' education per child per year. We don't think one size fits all at all times. This year, one of our kiddos needed a change. She does well academically and has friends in school but wasn't loving it and frankly, she's too young to become jaded.

Fear, Panic and Trepidation
I am incessantly inquisitive and love a good investigation. I'm sleuthy and very thorough. I used to think I was involved in my kids schooling. I worked in the classrooms. I met with the teachers. I worked on homework every night. Gift giving occasions always included some kind of educational enhancement to their current interests....Blah, blah, blah.

I was wrong.

This experience has shown me just how much I didn't know. We have been so blessed to have had wonderful teachers for our kids. Good schools + good teachers + involved parents = great education, right? Well, yes, but I have had a wake up call too.

For me, this journey has been as much about supporting my daughter as it have been about me adapting to what the situation calls for. You see, I like structure. I like a high bar. I like goals. She does too. BUT she might also like other things. That doesn't make her deficient in any way, just different. I like to say, she has been living in a black and white world and she's all color!

But back to me.

So, while I am Gumby over here, stretching and bending to adapt to what I am being called to do, I am certain it may kill me. I mean homeschooling is for freaky fringe people, right? These are people who inbreed and live on compounds or in the back woods. That's not us. We live in a beach town in Orange County, for crying out loud. I like structure. I like uniforms. By golly she is in a good place. ("Yes, but it's not all that for her." My voice reminds me.)

So, with D's encouragement, I embark on my research...My happy place of investigating. Oh, there is so much out there. There are treasure chests of blogs and resources. I could hardly stand the inspiration that rushed over me. "I can do this....She needs me to try to do this..."

This past Friday was her final day of school with her classmates and I could hardly walk the halls to pick her up. Our transition is fairly smooth since we'll still be on campus and see our friends. Playdates and activities are set and we even arranged to be pen pals with the class. (All first graders need to write, write, write). She was happy to bounce on out of there giving everyone a cheerful hug. Me, not so much.

I love her teacher. I love her little friends who I have been working with for a couple of years now. I like the feeling of being part of a class. The routine speaks to me. The group connection makes me feel warm inside. Class dynamics are hard but also so good. My self doubt gains speed.
Leaving the class I am certain I am going to loose it right there in the hallway IN FRONT OF EVERYONE--especially my daughter. "I can't crack. Not now."

I [sort of ] made it home and cracked all weekend. I am certain we have made a mistake. This is all so unnecessary. Let's go back to the way I like it and proceed status quo.

Monday Morning
With great enthusiasm and the joyful smile I love so much, Anna bounces into greet me at 6:37 am. "Today is my first day of homeschooling! Woo Hoo!" I smile back and bury my head under the covers in sheer and utter panic. "What have I done?! It's not too late. She can slap that uniform on and get on to school."

At some point I realize we were passed the point of packing her up and proceeding as we do every Monday morning. I am terrified, literally terrified I am going to ruin her. She's a good student and what if I am the reason she is not from this point forward....

I am shocked at how hard it was for me emotionally to cut the cord from her classroom. Unexpected, to say the least. My research didn't allow for this sort of....feeling.

Anyway, D had to leave for his blissfull day at the office and we had to get started with our day. I had to pull it together and pretend like I knew what I was doing.

Yes, We Can
This girl is a teacher in training. I had planned to keep things as close to the program at school as possible but she isn't messing around. The blue folder is for math. The green is for work in progress. The yellow is for writing....

I suppose the apple doesn't fall far from the tree afterall and she likes good structure too. And so, we proceed this day with a lot of unknowns together. We have some flexibility to go deep in areas that are especially interesting. We can read and write until the cows come home but there is still comfort in our schedule and our folders and what we both know and like. There will certainly be hiccups and bumps in the road but I as of today, I no longer feel like I will completely loose it and hyperventilate. I feel like we have an exciting opportunity to try this gig out and see if it suits any of us. We can always go back.

I am so proud and thankful for my 'can do' girl and her enthusiasm. Without it I may have crumbled before the day even started. Now, I am feel hopeful for what tomorrow will bring.

This Week's Menu

2010-02-01T11:59:00.000-08:00

Rigatoni with Squash and Prawns
Asparagus and Zucchini Crudi

Taco Tuesday

Tuna Melt
Red Potato and Tomato Salad

Chicken (and rice) Soup -- Avila's Style
Taquitos

Photo from here.

Snow Day

2010-01-31T08:28:00.000-08:00

We made it to the snow for a fun day of play with family. The weather was great, the kids had a blast and traffic home almost sucked the life out of me. But, it was worth it. Here's the highlight reel....

Uncle starts us off with a lovely back flip demonstration.

For some very odd reason I felt compelled to try it myself but since it was the beginning of snow play I didn't want to be the party pooper who gets hurt in the first five minutes of arrival. Boring, I know. But, safe. And sometimes, we must control our completely irrational impulses and live vicariously through fearless little brothers.

Christopher

Anna

Lil P
Our little 'sea otter' samples the snow...NO, it's not yellow snow!

Sledding with Dad is the best--even Liz wants in on the action.

Lil boys take on (and trash talk) the big boys with a snowball fight.

This was a much better option, in my opinion, since up until this point anyone (including Mama) was fair game.

Girls' [and Boys'] Day Out

2010-01-26T12:54:00.000-08:00

Anna and two of her besties celebrated one of their birthdays at the American Girl doll store in LA. The best part is that the mama are good buds too. So, we had the most fabulous time heading to the Grove for the day. The training starts early: We started our morning with a 'Bucks stop. Watched the Hannah Montana movie (I will confess that I'm pretty tight with what my kids watch but I really liked this movie. For that reason, I graciously offered to sit in the middle row of the car 'with the little girls'--all so I could watch the movie too.).

We had reservations for lunch and while I am not overly impressed with the actual food, AG gets high marks for presentation. They know how to make these girls feel special.

Naturally there was a bit of shopping involved. I was impressed with the scrutiny these little ladies used when selecting to spend their precious dollars at a sometimes over priced store. You have to be discriminating and determine if you can make that item yourself, buy a better one on Etsy, or realize it is a waste altogether. All three girls made good choices and we didn't have to spend a fortune or cry our way out of the store.

All the while the girls (and Mama's) are enjoying a ladies' day out, the boys were basking in a little slice of Heaven themselves. Dad had great visions of beach fishing but really, the boys just wanted to dig, rock hunt and explore.

While we had vastly different days, in the end we all felt like we had indulged in some special-ness (I know that's not really a word). Many thanks for the great day, friends.

This Week's Menu

2010-01-24T21:16:00.000-08:00

[Mama Out] Tuna and Sweet Pea Casserole
Greens with sliced pears

Home-Rolled Sushi
Edamame

Veggie Pita Pockets (with Goddess Dressing)
Cup of Soup (Tomato Bisque)

Pasta Primavera

Photo from here.

Art Ideas

2010-01-22T08:00:00.000-08:00

One of our most favorite books ever is the Complete Booke of Art Ideas from Usborne. I am big fan of the Usborne series in general but this is a great book, especially for rainy (So Cal) days.

There is a great range of project ideas. Not all involve a ton of supplies and oodles of uninterrupted time (neither are plentiful at our house).

The step by step instructions are pretty easy to follow--even for a six year old. Great for gifts or a special creator in your life.

Gift Ideas and Some Stitchery

2010-01-19T21:30:00.000-08:00

When it comes to gift giving for classmate, sometime it can be a challenge. You don't always know the child well and what really lights them up (and I am a fan of thoughtful gifts, even if they aren't for people close to you.). Do they already have that toy? What if they really hate legos? So, we tend towards gifts that are a little bit different and personalized, if possible. A good read or something creative are always my first choice.

Some of my go-to gift ideas:

: A favorite book with personalized book plates (so great for emerging readers like K and 1st graders)

: A favorite craft book with accompanying supplies

: A nice journal with personalized pencils

You get the drift.

One of our recent favorites was a little stamping kit and a homemade bag. Included in the very simple drawstring bag were fun birthday stamps, a personalized stamp with the birthday girl's name, a stitched book for stamping, gel pens and some stickers.

These bags are incredibly rudimentary but that's the level of seamstress I am right now (and I'm so ok with that that I am even posting it for you all to see. Baby steps, my friends.).

And since my little helper was somewhat fascinated with the process and allowed me to complete these, I whipped up a quick bag for him to stash his crayons in. It seemed like a win-win.

Surfing the Park

2010-01-18T18:21:00.000-08:00

Perhaps you've heard, Southern California is getting some weather. We've been on storm watch here for some actual precipitation falling from the sky. It's nothing like the rest of the country actually gets but it's big news around these parts.

So what do So Cal kids do when it rains, you ask?

Surf the park, of course!

Extra points awarded for tricks.

P.S. The grom in the spotlight is like family to us. He has a real love for the sport and is a joy to watch in the real surf. It's not every day he gets to practice in the hood.

This Week's Menu

2010-01-17T13:42:00.001-08:00

Breakfast for Dinner:
Poached Eggs with Mushrooms and Tomatoes
Sourdough Toast

Baked Ravioli with Chicken Sausage
Greens with Hearts of Palm and Avacado

Tostadas

Caprese Paninis
Brocoli and Cauliflower Caeser (Inspired by this recipe)

Photo from here.

My Favorite iPhone Apps

2010-01-13T19:25:00.000-08:00

I made the switch to an iPhone almost a year ago and I never looked back. Apple makes everything easy. I am a busy lady and multitask a lot (sound familiar?). I have limited computer time and am on the go a lot. The iPhone helps me keep things in motion (email, scheduling, etc.) and that really works for our lifestyle.

I am sure I am not alone in this and thought I'd share some of my most favorite iPhone/iTouch apps. I'll start with lifestyle apps I use. Future feature(s) will include ones that my kids love when they hijack my phone. I'm feeling frugal of late, so most of my apps are free or almost free.

Around Me: Allows you to quickly find things that are around you. I use this app A LOT. During the holidays I wasn't about to stand in the long lines at the Post Office with my very busy little helper. So, I proceeded on with my errands and used Around Me to find a sweet little Post Office tucked a mile from me with no line. This is an especially good app if you are in an area you aren't very familiar with. Excellent for traveling.

AppBox [Lite]: This is a fun app with a few features I really use and some I just haven't spent time to get to know. I like this one for tracking special days (especially my special cyclical days, wink, wink). There is a fun countdown feature for a special date (think vacation, holiday, party, etc.). It also has a tip calculator, a unit converter currency exchange....Lots of fun stuff to help a sister out.

Amazon: Well this is obvious. I use this a lot when I am out and about. I like the wishlist feature with Amazon and this allows me to add something to my kids' wishlists, for example, right away. That's sort of how I have to roll whenever possible. It's a now or never approach, and this gives me the now. (For the record, I review my wishlists and refine my choices too.)

Amazon Kindle: I don't have a real Kindle but this makes me feel like I do. My oldest (7) is currently reading a mystery with this app. Very fun (but a bit small).

Camera Bag: Just a fun photo enhancer. There are lots of these types of apps out there. This one is pretty simple with just a few choices. I like.

Gas Bag: Best for traveling out of your normal gas station route. Helps you find the cheapest gas around you.

Pandora: Pul-eeze tell me you know of this app. It's essential for everyone. I mean everyone! It's great for listening to music from your favorite artists and some new folks in the same genre. I've found some goodies with this lovely app.

Where: Similar to Around Me. I used this one more before Around Me. It's good for more in depth local weather tracking, news, etc. More of a local barometer.

Facebook & Twitter (Echofon & TweetDeck): Social media at your finger tips at all times. Sort of a little much but there if you want it.

Surf Report: I'm just a wanna be surfer still (this summer, this summer....) but we hit the beach a lot. I like this app for checking the tides, water temp, size and basic beach conditions like sunset, etc.

I showed you mine, now you show me yours. If you have any that you love, please share. I really do love it when lurkers bother to comment.

[Update: Whether you have an iPhone or a Blackberry or a regular cell phone, you can help the Haiti relief effort simply by texting 'HAITI' to 90999. Easy and so necessary. Please give in some way.]

Photo from here.

Weekly Planner

2010-01-12T20:31:00.000-08:00

I like the way Karen uses her planner. Mine isn't always this clean and pretty.

I have a new system I've been trying out. Certainly you've seen Lobotome's Momme Weekly Planner all over blogland by now. It's not new but it's new to me.

I like to see my whole week laid out, everything at a glance. I love that there is a section for Me Time AND Exercise and it's not counted as the same thing. One day I will actually fill those slots in and double MY TIME. Dare to dream.

Photo from Lobotome.

This Week's Menu

2010-01-11T17:42:00.000-08:00

I'm working my way out of my meal rut, thanks to Jodie and Michelle, and trying a few of their recent favorites. Thanks for the inspiration, gals.

Thai Chicken Pizza

Orzo Salad with Shrimp, Veggies, and Pesto Vinaigrette

Chicken Piccata
Spinach

Chili
Cornbread

Photo from here.

Getting Out There

2010-01-06T07:25:00.000-08:00

We've been hitting the trails again. This past year got us a bit off balance and we weren't enjoying as many of the simple pleasures we love so much. Over our holiday break we completely lost track of what day it was and got back out there.

Hiking the local hills with a good view of our community, not to mention some sweet sword fighting, whittling, family yoga and pick-up batting practice.

Riding through Balboa Park on a day trip south with Liz in her chariot,

(except when she tried to take a dip in the fountain), and pausing for a game of freeze tag.

Strolling beach side with family and lots of hand holding.

Next up, two new beach trails we have been dying to wander.

This Week's Menu Returns

2010-01-04T19:32:00.001-08:00

Photo via The Bikram Diaries.

After a break from posting our weekly menu, I have been shamed back into sharing our dinners. I want the record to show that I list out what I have planned for the week and it just may not be all that. Some weeks are better than others. Some weeks I am motivated, with a plan and desire to try something new. Other times, we just need nourishment to get through.

So, maybe there is a nugget of inspiration for your weekly menu, or maybe you can tell which weeks I'm relying on some favorites. Either way, don't be afraid to chime in with your menu plans for the week. I'd love to hear them.

Veggie potstickers, tofu, carrots and brown rice
(Two out of three of my kids devour my tofu bites. And the brown rice? Nature's broom, as my Dad calls it. What better way to detox from the holiday richness than some good ole brown rice?)

Ravioli with bolognese sauce
Greens with marinated cannellini beans and bermuda onions

Chicken soft tacos

Mini tostadas
Spanish rice

Crisis Averted

2010-01-04T19:11:00.000-08:00

Just two days before the scare..Looking good for a gal of her age, wouldn't you say?!

Phew. We had a close call on New Year's Day. Our beloved Lizzy fell very ill. She is about to celebrate her 12th birthday so a little illness can really throw a gal of her....maturity.

Perhaps it was the NYE party and all the [nearly] fatal treats we served to little people (who proceeded to drop and grind into our carpet, likely cleaned up by our faithful Liz). Or maybe it was just a our horrible bout of stomach illness that transferred to K9 proportion (Is that even possible?). Either way, we've had a few lessons learned.

1. From this day forward, we are celebrating every. single. day. our dear Liz is with us.

2. We've made a pack to send her out big and have some good things on the books for her this year. She has to stick around to enjoy them.

3. Whenever we have a party, she will be safely tucked away until all potentially lethal food (like chocolate and grapes) is far from her tongue's reach.

4. Little people will eat outside or at a table. No walking and eating (sounds like a fun party, huh?!). Not just for Lizzy's sake, but also for my carpet's. Let's bring some civility to the youngins.

So, I am relieved to report that Liz is mostly back to normal and we are off 'watch'. It was dicey and there were a few days I was actually afraid to check her. I tell you with full conviction, I am not ready for the circle of life to hit her. I plan for her to break all Labrador records and live many, many, many....more years. Deal?! (There is nothing wrong with denial! Leave me be.)

New Year's Soup

2010-01-01T10:30:00.000-08:00

We had a fun casual soiree last night to ring in the new decade. I sent guests home with some essential foods for good prosperity. New Year's Soup (lentils and black eyed peas on NYD = a must) and a petite calendar from Little Brown Pen.

We stuck to custom with a grape for every bell of 'midnight' for the kids and added what is sure to be a new tradition with a pots and pans parade around the neighborhood (remember we celebrate at 9 with the kids, EST).

Sending good vibes for a prosperous new year to you! Off to make some yummy soup...

The Reflection Post

2009-12-31T06:00:00.000-08:00

Image from here.

What day is it? Ah, it's so refreshing that our days don't own us and I actually have to take pause to consider the answer. We've had a wonderfully restful holiday with good family times that had become a little less frequent than we like.

We had fallen into some kind of a funk. A bit of a pit, if I may say. And with the commencement of a new decade it's nice to have some anticipation for good things to come. I, for one, am happy as all-get-out to welcome the new year.

You know that feeling of swimming up stream and just getting tired? Why....so....hard? Well, I'm sort of over that and ready for things to flow a little easier. Wouldn't that be nice?! This has been a good break for us to pull in and do what we really enjoy. Step off the track and just BE, as our most authentic selves. Clarity and simplicity are guiding us and we welcome a little more balance in our lives. (Exhale)

I love a good barometer reading when the kids have spent oodles of time together and still want to have a slumber party in the bunkbeds. Got to love some regrouping.

Cheers to you and yours and hoping you have a safe and enjoyable NYE. May 2010 be a much better year for all!

P.S. Don't forget to check out the blue moon tonight.

Party Perfect

2009-12-29T07:19:00.001-08:00

Thanks for the blog love on Party Perfect. Sara featured Parker's party on her fabulous blog (a daily read for me) and we are so tickled about the photo she chose. It just makes us giggle. He's a funny little guy, huh?

More on the party here.

Three Little Monkeys

2009-12-27T19:02:00.001-08:00

Jumping on the bed...None fell off to bonk their head.

Phew! Enjoying vacation together. Hope you are too.

P.S. We ended this day with a fun little game of "We're the parents and you're the kids" (role reversal). Top Ramen and fruit cup dinner with a side of hot cocoa and ice cream dessert. Clearly, it's a fun little exercise for both sides.

Hey, don't judge. We'll take the break where ever we can get it!

Blessed

2009-12-24T06:00:00.000-08:00

Sending you good tidings for a very Merry Christmas. Our celebrating begins today and we feel so blessed in so many ways. May your holiday be merry and bright.

Pardon the fuzzy areas. Some of the particulars of our family have been whited out to protect the innocent (who don't even know I share as much as I do.).

Gift Giving

2009-12-22T03:30:00.000-08:00

Last year we received the Artisan Bread Book (Thanks, Pam! Best gift ever.). At first I thought, "Well this is sweet but I'm not much of a baker. It's too precise for me." But then we learned how simple and tasty and completely open to possibility bread making can be. We've barely even deviated from the basic recipe since we love it so much. (And we eat enough veggies to not be concerned with carb loading, so bring it on!) I'm hard-pressed to find a meal that isn't made better with fresh bread.

So, for our close friends and neighbors this year we (really, David) baked bread wreaths for gifting. I coupled it with an amazing Tuscan Seasoning (to be mixed with vinegar and EVOO) for dipping.

Parker helped D with the mixing and shaping--adding a very important dash of love. And my other little elves delivered the fresh warm bread. I can't confirm it but I believe there may have been some doorbell ditching involved. 'Tis the season?

Jesus replied, "I am the bread of life. No one coming to me will ever be hungry again."
--John 6:35a

Out-of-School Sanity Saver

2009-12-20T20:15:00.000-08:00

I'm sort of digging these giant family fun pads. I picked up a Search for Santa pad at Costco and we've had oodles of fun with it. We gifted a search to some of our friends (I suspect there was some doorbell ditching involved). We also used them for festive place settings with the cousins.

There are two levels of play so it appeals to a broad range of kids. There is basic beginner hidden item search (with pictures of what is hidden) and also a longer, more challenging list of items to be found (no pictures).

Thought I'd pass along a little vacation fun in case you're looking for a good travel activity or just have some cabin fever kiddos.

P.S. We also picked up a Spot the Difference family pad (you know, spotting the differences between two pictures). One of those pages clocked in a good 30-40 minute activity. Who doesn't appreciate a good half hour of calm and quiet searching?!

For The Love of Writing: Love Journals

2009-12-18T13:48:00.000-08:00

One of my favorite gifts to bestow on new couples is a love journal. The beauty of the book is it's compilation of love letters to one another in one place and over time there is a wonderful story that evolves. My husband and I have one and while it isn't a daily journal by any means, it's fun to write a little something special to him and then hide it in his work bag or in his sock drawer, you get the picture. Then, he returns the treat, when I least expect it.

Since I have emerging writers who could certainly use a little encouragement and even a little trip down story lane, I decide to start the same thing with them. I just jazzed up some composition books and wrote a little something to get them started. The rules are simple.

1. They can write about anything they want to.
2. If they want me to write back or contribute to a story, they just have to leave their journal on my pillow.
3. There really aren't any rules.

I have some fun story starters that we can tap into if we need to. Initially I anticipate some love notes filling the pages of our books. It's supposed to be a gift for them but I am excited about what is to come from their sweet little minds and hearts.